Honestly? I curse them as horrible Godless people and pray that the Lord smites them the same way he handled folks Old Testament style. Then I judge their internal state of the souls, and proclaim them to be wicked dark people who are akin to demons on earth. Unworthy to even call themselves human and hope they die a horrible death and get to hell as quick as they can before they have the opportunity to hurt others.
…something I try to work on, not a good attitude to have
I believe puzzledtoo is right about pondering The Lord’s Prayer. You could always obtain some laminated prayer cards with it printed on the back. By repeating it over and over to yourself and reflecting on it’s meanings, it can really soften your heart and lead you to a healthier, more Christ-like you.
Another thought worth repeating silently to yourself and pondering over, is the quote attributed to Philo of Alexandria:
Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle. Even just smiling and being friendly toward people who you perceive as Godless and unfriendly would be an enormous help to you. Remember, God doesn’t judge us by our thoughts, but by our actions. If you’re feeling bad about something or toward someone, it’s wise to simply ignore your thoughts altogether and to focus entirely on your words and deeds.
Normally, we think of our thoughts and feelings as purely a response to our inner emotional state, but this isn’t entirely true; it works both ways. When we see someone we like we feel affection and we smile, but it’s also true that when we deliberately and purposefully smile our emotions and state of mind are affected. In this way, we have some measure of control over our feelings. So, if you harbor dark thoughts and malice toward someone, rather than pointlessly wrestling with your psyche itself, you can always choose to act or speak charitably. You have
direct control over your words and actions, whereas you can’t control emotional responses simply by thinking about them.
That verse has always struck me very deeply. When I pray the Our Father, I am literally praying for God to dispense forgiveness to me to the extent that I give it to others. Since I really want God to give forgiveness to me quite liberally, I tend to bend over backwards trying to give people the benefit of the doubt and not hold a grudge. I reflect on what terrible thing must have happened in their past for them to feel justified in behaving in such a way. It makes me feel pity much more than anger.