But respond civilly you did! Thank you. Sorry for the “non-sequitur” but it was bit long-winded and I didn’t want to respond to flag burning, etc.
I expect it took some time for the cross to be adopted as a symbol of Christianity (greater than three days), but to answer your question: No, I don’t think Christ is upset by representations of the cross. He triumphed over it. If your grandfather fought in the war and brought back a mauser rifle or nazi flag I don’t think he would look at those items in fear.
I also find it odd that you reject this common Christian symbol in your architecture, and it sounds like you also don’t display, except maybe as a private devotion (?), yet you insist on being recognized as Christian. Why call a Christian symbol a “murder weapon” (okay for you - not for me) and then turn around and insist we are all part of the same family?
Hmmn…
That’s a new requirement for being a Christian, m’friend…one that even I’ve never heard before (and I’ve heard a BUNCH of 'em.) …that a Christian MUST put the cross up everywhere?
I have heard more than one Christian decide that people who use crucifixes cannot be real Christians, though. (don’t worry, I’m not one of those people.)
The definition of “Christian” is…(from the OED) …of persons and communities: Beleiving, professing, or belonging to the religion of Christ. .
Ok, breaking that down, we have 'believing" (from the same source) To have confidence or faith in (a person), and consequently to rely upon, trust to
“professing”=(again, from the same source) To declare, affirm, acknowledge, or confess oneself to be something.
“belonging” (ibid) To be connected with in various relations; to form a part or appendage of; e.g. to be a member of a family, society, or nation, to be an adherent or dependent of, to be a native or inhabitant of a place; to be a dependency, adjunct, or appendage of something; to be one of a generation or time.
In other words, anyone who believes in Jesus Christ, declares that he is a Christian, or belongs to a group that believes in Christ or declares itself to be Christian, is a Christian.
By definition.
Doesn’t make him right.
Doesn’t make him saved.
Doesn’t make him good.
Doesn’t make him Christ’s…
But it does make him a Christian. The word is a classification of belief, not an imprimatur of righteousness or of salvation.