Hi,
I am a mid-life, female, mechanical engineer in my second year of seminary for a Master’s of Divinty in Clinical Pastoral Counseling. y
wow that is quite a step and quite a career change, and I am sure called for a lot of discernment and certainly courage.
for a Catholic, seminary preparation means a vocation to the sacrificial priesthood, a vocation which does not exist in protestant denominations, other than those such as Anglicans which retain the concept of priesthood in the full sacrificial sense (and of course the Orthodox).
For most protestants, seminary means preparation for ministry, usually pastoral ministry. The job description of a Catholic priest certainly includes pastoral ministry, but the participation in the sacrificial priesthood is the most essential to the vocation.
In the Catholic church, a lot of “jobs” that call for preparation in pastoral counselling, social service and related fields actually are done by lay persons, including lay women. That might be for a Catholic institution, college, hospital, social welfare agency etc., or for a diocese, in various departments that directly concern themselves with needs of individuals: Catholic Charities, Family Life office, Immigration Assistance etc. For that matter any administrative, or professional position that exists in the business or non-profit world exists in the Catholic world–accounting, management, IP, HRD etc.
National Catholic publications such as the National Catholic Register, Our Sunday Visitor have job listings, and diocesan websites also list job openings. If you are specifically thinking of working in a CAtholic diocese or institution and seminary is no longer an option, you might consider finishing your degree at a Catholic college and taking advantage of their placement office.
I don’t know if you have a tradition of spiritual direction for those in seminary formation, it has always been part of the Catholic process, and certainly could benefit you at this time. Since your “major” is rather specific, probably there is someone you should be talking to about realistic career choices as well, where and how would you use this degree, and that kind of guidance. Good luck, we are pretty sharp in the prayer dept. here and will certainly pray for you to discern and cooperate with God’s will for you in this path.
A relative who is a minister in a non-denominational church got the same degree a few years ago and is now working with a church-based agency that does alcohol and drug rehab, specifically working with mothers who have been in prison or institutionalized, helping them return home and get their families back together. Not the direction she planned when she started out, but she also works on a disaster team for her church, and was sent to Ground Zero, to Biloxi, and other places following disasters to work directly with famlies of victims. This was a mid-life change for her as well, and she is very happy, very busy and very underpaid.