No, no brother. I don’t think that anyone implied that. There is nothing abnormal about not feeling like holding hands for reasons like: not being used to do it, not seeing any meaning in it or because the church never taught it. However, to to feel disgusted with the very idea of holding a stranger’s hand or to fear contamination / disease, is just lack of love. In fact most of us are lacking in love and that is why we venerate role models like Francis of Assisi and Mother Teresa for embracing Lepers and pray to be transformed like them.