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As Catholics we need to communicate that virtue sin and charity does not change according to life circumstance.

That would make things like slander and gossip relative. We all suffer in this life but it does not give license to do this.

For my participation here, I have compassion for Domers circumstance, but do not support her actions here.

I do wish her the best.
 
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Dacinom said:
laughing with “I never went to the local store for tampons” with a laughing face,
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Do you know why I said that?

It wasn’t directed at the OP. Taking stuff out of context is hardly fair. That was directed at another poster - not the OP. I didn’t buy tampons in the local drug store because I’d have been mortified if the guy I went to high school with rang them up. Therefore I could hardly imagine buying Plan B in a place I’d be recognized. The laughing was at myself. I wasn’t even speaking to the OP.
 
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Elizabeth3 said:
If someone thinks the details are getting too deep, then flag it and let the mods decide. What I don’t agree with is telling someone to get off the forum or to stop the conversation here.
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Someone spilling details that should only be spilled to a lawyer is anything but flag worthy. It’s not indecent, it’s not against forum rules - it’s just imprudent. She asked my opinion, and I gave it.
 
Yeah, but there was a lot of mocking and scoffing at the things she said before that. Perhaps not directly from you but you did “like” the posts of those who were playing “gotcha”. I just wonder why they had the need to post if they didn’t have anything charitable to say. Why couldn’t they leave it to those who didn’t mind continuing the conversation. There was no one compelling them to join the thread if it was getting on their nerves.

Honestly, because this is anonymous, I’m not sure how much of anything that is said here could be used legally if it was found. There are no names named. If she did decide to seek legal counsel she could ask them about it and delete if necessary. Many people already suggested a lawyer long before you did and she said she didn’t want to go that route anyway. That’s her choice.
 
Yep, that was me. I remember being a teen and there is no way on God’s green earth I would have asked outloud for Plan B if I’d not scanned the aisles to make sure no one who knew me was there. I speculated these girls might be saying outrageous things simply because they know it will get a rise out of the OP.

You know, like when your brother was pestering you and your mom said “if you stop squealing about it he will stop”.
 
After a very short time, you are unable to delete posts. Also, some could figure out who you are. The internet memory can be forever. This is not about condemning the mother, but about the possibility someone can access her posts.
 
Ann_Stanton said:
After a very short time, you are unable to delete posts. Also, some could figure out who you are. The internet memory can be forever. This is not about condemning the mother, but about the possibility someone can access her posts.
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This is a moot point anyway since the OP told multiple people who suggested a lawyer that she didn’t want to go that route. None of that, however, has anything to do with the tone and snarky attitude that was shown to the OP.
 
I do not think you understood my post. I only wanted to make the point that she could be identified. She certainly has the right not to involve a lawyer. I am only concerned that the OP and others might think that deleted posts are gone forever. They are not. I was not addressing what others said or did.
 
Elizabeth3 said:
Yeah, but there was a lot of mocking and scoffing at the things she said before that. Perhaps not directly from you but you did “like” the posts of those who were playing “gotcha”. I just wonder why they had the need to post if they didn’t have anything charitable to say. Why couldn’t they leave it to those who didn’t mind continuing the conversation. There was no one compelling them to join the thread if it was getting on their nerves.

Honestly, because this is anonymous, I’m not sure how much of anything that is said here could be used legally if it was found. There are no names named. If she did decide to seek legal counsel she could ask them about it and delete if necessary. Many people already suggested a lawyer long before you did and she said she didn’t want to go that route anyway. That’s her choice.
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The web is not as anonymous as one would like to think it is. I have no idea what was suggested earlier as I’ve not read the whole thread, and in reality that doesn’t matter. She asked me for my ideas, and I gave it to her. Hire a lawyer or at least talk to one and stop posting about it online.

Yep, if I like what someone writes, I’ll like it. Clearly you’ve stalked my likes, which is a bit odd to me.
 
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Dacinom said:
Stating details about HIPPA and so forth, challenging her. Telling her to stop posting.
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I mentioned HIPAA (it’s HIPAA, actually) because someone asked if the incident with the OB/GYN was a HIPAA violation - as in, was the OB/GYN committing one as a protected entity (which is a massive no-no for a medical professional).

Again - out of context. It was explanatory, no more and no less, and in response to another comment.
 
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Dacinom said:
I observe you are intelligent and bright, and sometimes seem to “take on” or challenge others. That can be a great trait, especially discussing morality and apologetics. Not always though, just my two cents.
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I have sent you a PM.
 
Dacinom said:
I am honest when I said this thread seemed very uncharitable to me. I’m sorry we don’t see eye to eye. Perhaps time to end the conversation.
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I agree as well. I’ve given my opinion about the uncharitable attitude of some posters. If they’re comfortable with their words, so be it. I’m not interested in arguing about it endlessly.

@Pup7, no one is stalking your likes so don’t start spinning what I said to make it look like there is something sinister about it. When someone leaves a snarky and rude comment, it’s not at all odd to wonder who would “like” something like that. It’s not hard to click the little heart to see who it might be and it’s right there for public knowledge. Stalking implies someone had to go out of their way to spy on someone behind the scenes and the only reason to use that word is to make them look unstable in some way and to discredit what they said. Not cool.

[Edited to add: I’ve flagged the thread. I think it’s best it’s closed. The OP is gone and the original topic is not being discussed anymore. There’s no use going 10 rounds arguing opinions that are unlikely to change.]
 
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Elizabeth3 said:
@Pup7, no one is stalking your likes so don’t start spinning what I said to make it look like there is something sinister about it.
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That wasn’t spin. You clicked to see who liked what and then commented on it. Seemed like stalking to me, and I do think it was a bit out of your way to do that. And then you tagged me.

Muting this thread. I hope you have a great rest of the weekend.
 
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It IS unethical and it’s difficult to believe given the malpractice climate. If this truly happened this OB/BGYN should be reported to the medical board.
 
Yes and I quite frankly don’t believe he said that, and reiterate once again if he did say as such he should be reported for violating HIPPA and the medical board for ethical concerns.
 
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