Urgent: why does the afterlife matter? Why do we care?

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A deep friend recently asked me eternal life matters and why heaven matters. I realized I had never thought about it aside from wanting to go to heaven and not hell, and it’s just a deep question. So…what do you think the answer is? Why don’t we just let things be? How are we so sure, aside from Scripture, that the afterlife exists and we want to be on the right side of it?
 
Some people have brought us messages … some of them have been verified(?) as reasonable or true.

Apparitions by the Blessed Mother, approved by church officials, might qualify.
 
For thousands of years, across all cultures round the world, whether connected or not, have stories of ghosts/demons and gods, good vs bad. Their religions may be very very different, but there is a common theme. And it always boils down to this: explaining why bad things happen and how to rectify it. And when good things happen, thanking the relevant parties. Aside of those, you have folks who want to know how to benefit from knowing the future, cursing/hexing your opponents, and how to fix problems of wealth, health, and harmony. When traditional methods don’t work, approaching the supernatural is the desperate solution.

Why does it matter? If one believes in the after life, one is naturally concern what life is in store for them. Especially if the afterlife is a lot longer and pleasant/unpleasant than the current life. For atheists that don’t , it doesn’t exist for them. And if there is an afterlife, you want to make sure you have proper contacts there, someone you can network with.

You don’t want to let things be because you are prudent. Because you think your life sucks and can be better. Because you think you need help. Because you are proactive. Because you have been cursed, possessed and need help. All sorts of reasons but mainly we live in a constant changing world and not many people think letting things be is a responsible attitude to life or afterlife.
 
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A deep friend recently asked me eternal life matters and why heaven matters. I realized I had never thought about it aside from wanting to go to heaven and not hell, and it’s just a deep question. So…what do you think the answer is? Why don’t we just let things be? How are we so sure, aside from Scripture, that the afterlife exists and we want to be on the right side of it?
If you asked everyone if they would prefer not to cease to exist if they could be guaranteed to be blissfully happy and fullfilled for eternity, what do you think most people would say?
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The afterlife has been a part of so many religious and spirituality traditions, including pre-Christianity and outside Christianity, that it seems pretty certain to me that we do not end at death. These ideas had to come from somewhere, and there have always been people who went and “came back” (either near death experiences, or holy/ spiritual people who were able to travel between the realms of earth and elsewhere).

It also seems very reasonable to me that love transcends death and that our lives are serving some greater purpose than just biological accident, so of course I’d like to be part of the side of Love and Greater Purpose, which is God.
 
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If you asked everyone if they would prefer not to cease to exist if they could be guaranteed to be blissfully happy and fullfilled for eternity, what do you think most people would say?
“I have no proof that God exists, and even if he does, he’s a cruel monster, and therefore, I must choose not to believe in him”…?

No, wait. That’s what a minority of people say. 😉 🤣
 
For me, I have great appreciation for the ability of the human mind to form a reality based on what one wants.

Since we don’t really know about the afterlife from a scientific perspective, but I want there to be an afterlife, I know by my faith and conviction that there is an afterlife.

Why the belief? Besides the fact that there are a lot of people I would like to rejoin, I think the belief is helpful in not being obsessed with death. There is good to be said for a healthy fear of dying, but it is also natural to have an obsession with death being the End, and I find that faith in the afterlife is an antidote to such obsession.
 
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A deep friend recently asked me eternal life matters and why heaven matters. I realized I had never thought about it aside from wanting to go to heaven and not hell, and it’s just a deep question. So…what do you think the answer is? Why don’t we just let things be? How are we so sure, aside from Scripture, that the afterlife exists and we want to be on the right side of it?
You’re right, it is a deep question. One issue is what would you do. After a thousand years has passed, you’ve still got eternity to go. After a trillion years there’s still eternity to go. A hundred trillion years doesn’t make even a little dent in eternity. And there’s no escape.

Another issue is whether you’d be the same person after a mere thousand years, or whether you’d have changed beyond recognition. In which case it’s not you that has eternal life.

Some people say we’ll dance around singing God’s praises. But try doing it. It gets boring very quickly. If it’s boring after a few days, imagine after a trillion years. Other people say there’s no time in the afterlife, but a frozen mind in a frozen body doesn’t sound very desirable.

There’s lots more issues too. But as you say, the strange thing is how little we, including philosophers, have thought about it.
 
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A deep friend recently asked me eternal life matters and why heaven matters. I realized I had never thought about it aside from wanting to go to heaven and not hell, and it’s just a deep question. So…what do you think the answer is? Why don’t we just let things be? How are we so sure, aside from Scripture, that the afterlife exists and we want to be on the right side of it?
If you’re looking for objective proof for any of it, you won’t find it.

For me, religion is the result of axiomatically deciding that the metaphysical objectively exists. If metaphysical morality, meaning, beauty (and a host of other concepts) are real and objective things, then they demand an ontological God.

As a reminder, you’re free to reject if you so choose. Contrary to what some may say, there are no “brute facts” that you simply must accept.

As to how that manifests into Catholicism for me, personally… I’m a child of the west, in short. Catholicism is the quintessential western religion and has had a very notable hand in the development of western culture (science, philosophy and so on) for the last 2000 years. Through it, I attain better interface with my culture and better “personhood”.

As with anything involving people, there’s been good bits and bad bits. As that reality is present across the history of all other applied religious systems (including the supposedly non-religious ones), it’s not a suitable basis for distinction. As an example, if one thinks Buddhist history is much better, I assure you it’s only because one is under-read in their history. Christ nailed it when he said “There are none righteous among you; no not one.”

Pithily to the thread question; the afterlife matters because it’s an assent that joy is better than pain and joy takes work on your part. We care because that work is to be for the benefit of our fellow people.
 
You’re right, it is a deep question. One issue is what would you do. After a thousand years has passed, you’ve still got eternity to go. After a trillion years there’s still eternity to go. A hundred trillion years doesn’t make even a little dent in eternity. And there’s no escape.

Another issue is whether you’d be the same person after a mere thousand years, or whether you’d have changed beyond recognition. In which case it’s not you that has eternal life.
No matter how much a person changes, they are still themselves. That whole notion of “I’m not the person I used to be” is nonsense. You are still you, “you” in this case being the collective experiences of your lifetime. People change, but they generally do not stop being themselves.
Some people say we’ll dance around singing God’s praises. But try doing it. It gets boring very quickly. If it’s boring after a few days, imagine after a trillion years. Other people say there’s no time in the afterlife, but a frozen mind in a frozen body doesn’t sound very desirable.
It gets boring here because we are an overstimulated culture always seeking the next form in entertainment. You can’t compare our experience on Earth with the experience in Heaven. In Heaven, we will stand before the unfiltered presence of God. This is, literally, the reason we exist; it is the yearning of our hearts, minds, and souls, whether we realize it or not. Imagine the state of having every need and desire fulfilled not just on a superficial level, but to the very core of who you are as a person; perfect peace. No strife, no doubt, just pure unadulterated joy and fulfillment. In Heaven, if we are singing and dancing before God, it won’t be because it’s something to do, one activity of many; it will be because we are filled with a Love that must be expressed.

As for that notion of having a “frozen mind,” again, this is a mis-characterization of the nature of our experience. True, we cannot change our disposition once we enter the afterlife. We are either eternally for God, or against Him. This is because, faced with the fullness of God’s glory, unburdened by the veil we experience in this life, our choice is absolute. We will either chose for God, or for ourselves. That is a perfect choice, there is no uncertainty, no “lack” of knowledge in it. There is nothing we could learn or experience that would alter that choice, and as such that choice is eternal.
There’s lots more issues too. But as you say, the strange thing is how little we, including philosophers, have thought about it.
Except we haven’t thought about it a little, we’ve thought about it a lot. An individual may only have thought about it a little bit, but Catholic philosophers have been contemplating the nature of Eternity since the Apostolic age.
 
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No matter how much a person changes, they are still themselves. That whole notion of “I’m not the person I used to be” is nonsense. You are still you, “you” in this case being the collective experiences of your lifetime. People change, but they generally do not stop being themselves.
I suggest you look at centuries of controversy among philosophers on the nature of personal identity.
It gets boring here because we are an overstimulated culture always seeking the next form in entertainment. You can’t compare our experience on Earth with the experience in Heaven. In Heaven, we will stand before the unfiltered presence of God. This is, literally, the reason we exist; it is the yearning of our hearts, minds, and souls, whether we realize it or not. Imagine the state of having every need and desire fulfilled not just on a superficial level, but to the very core of who you are as a person; perfect peace. No strife, no doubt, just pure unadulterated joy and fulfillment. In Heaven, if we are singing and dancing before God, it won’t be because it’s something to do, one activity of many; it will be because we are filled with a Love that must be expressed.
OK, imagine experiencing this fulfilment for a day or two. Then keep going for, say, another hundred days. What have you learned that you didn’t know a hundred days earlier? Nothing. Or is it just a hedonistic experience, a permanent high? Either way, imagine doing the same for a trillion days. What’s the point? What’s the point of existing forever when you’re just repeating ad infinitum the same experience you already had on the first day?
As for that notion of having a “frozen mind,” again, this is a mis-characterization of the nature of our experience. True, we cannot change our disposition once we enter the afterlife. We are either eternally for God, or against Him. This is because, faced with the fullness of God’s glory, unburdened by the veil we experience in this life, our choice is absolute. We will either chose for God, or for ourselves. That is a perfect choice, there is no uncertainty, no “lack” of knowledge in it. There is nothing we could learn or experience that would alter that choice, and as such that choice is eternal.
The promise (John 5) is that we will have eternal life, there’s no subclause that we have to do it without free-will.
Except we haven’t thought about it a little, we’ve thought about it a lot. An individual may only have thought about it a little bit, but Catholic philosophers have been contemplating the nature of Eternity since the Apostolic age.
Up to 400 years ago they thought heaven is a place beyond the stars and hell is underground. Now they say that was silly, heaven and hell are not places and are a bit of a mystery. Are there condos in heaven? Trees? Mountains? Dogs?

There have been dozens of these threads, and never any agreement.
 
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You’re right, it is a deep question. One issue is what would you do. After a thousand years has passed, you’ve still got eternity to go. After a trillion years there’s still eternity to go. A hundred trillion years doesn’t make even a little dent in eternity. And there’s no escape.

Another issue is whether you’d be the same person after a mere thousand years, or whether you’d have changed beyond recognition. In which case it’s not you that has eternal life.

Some people say we’ll dance around singing God’s praises. But try doing it. It gets boring very quickly. If it’s boring after a few days, imagine after a trillion years. Other people say there’s no time in the afterlife, but a frozen mind in a frozen body doesn’t sound very desirable.

There’s lots more issues too. But as you say, the strange thing is how little we, including philosophers, have thought about it.
I suppose, then, that God himself must be incomprehensibly bored since he has existed eternally as “a frozen mind,” though apparently not in a “frozen body.” I would presume his bodily resurrection fills that part in. Are we to conclude that God must then be the most to be pitied of all since his “stay” in this less than rosy eternal state of merciless boredom had no beginning and no end?

Or perhaps you are very mistaken.

If God is the utter fullness of Being Itself, within whom lies the wellspring of limitless possibility, then boredom wouldn’t be remotely possible for any human being who was permitted a share in the fullness of Being itself.

I guess I have always assumed the opposite to your perspective. The more I live in the temporal reality, the more it obliquely points at its temporality, its contingency and its incompleteness. Why does it seem so incapable of providing satisfaction? Perhaps because we are destined for a reality that can completely fulfill us, can complete us and can be infinitely satisfying and happiness producing. It is in the shadow of that possibility that our dissatisfaction with our current state is to be understood and appreciated.

I suspect we don’t take our current dissatisfaction with us into eternity, but that the dissatisfaction points beyond itself to what it is that could completely satisfy us in a complete, permanent and limitless way.
 
I care because it will determine how I choose to live my life in this present moment and what I decide to orient myself towards.

Aside from that, there is Pascals Wager.
 
I suppose, then, that God himself must be incomprehensibly bored since he has existed eternally as “a frozen mind,” though apparently not in a “frozen body.” I would presume his bodily resurrection fills that part in. Are we to conclude that God must then be the most to be pitied of all since his “stay” in this less than rosy eternal state of merciless boredom had no beginning and no end?
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No, God can’t get bored. God is perfection, and any change would make God less perfect, so God never changes. Perfection can’t get bored.
If God is the utter fullness of Being Itself, within whom lies the wellspring of limitless possibility, then boredom wouldn’t be remotely possible for any human being who was permitted a share in the fullness of Being itself.
Very postmodern. But is it just endless entertainment? I take it we can’t become perfect in heaven, because what was imperfect can never be as perfect as God. So we will still change. We’re told we’ll have a body, after all, so unless we’re frozen we can move and think. But do you want to just be endless amused? After a trillion trillion trillion years have passed, the universe long since dead, will it still be amusing? What’s the point? Or do you instead want to accomplish, to grow? But after a trillion trillion trillion years have passed, what’s left to accomplish?
I guess I have always assumed the opposite to your perspective. The more I live in the temporal reality, the more it obliquely points at its temporality, its contingency and its incompleteness. Why does it seem so incapable of providing satisfaction? Perhaps because we are destined for a reality that can completely fulfill us, can complete us and can be infinitely satisfying and happiness producing. It is in the shadow of that possibility that our dissatisfaction with our current state is to be understood and appreciated.

I suspect we don’t take our current dissatisfaction with us into eternity, but that the dissatisfaction points beyond itself to what it is that could completely satisfy us in a complete, permanent and limitless way.
You probably didn’t intend that to sound kind of consumerist, like an endless mall of satisfaction. Is the purpose of life to be satisfied? Where’s it say that then?
 
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Suppose the afterlife is REAL.

Then if we screw it up, then we miss out on it .

We need to study it.
 
Very postmodern.
And I thought I was being Aristotelian🤔

You know best…

…I guess.
But is it just endless entertainment? I take it we can’t become perfect in heaven, because what was imperfect can never be as perfect as God. So we will still change. We’re told we’ll have a body, after all, so unless we’re frozen we can move and think. But do you want to just be endless amused? After a trillion trillion trillion years have passed, the universe long since dead, will it still be amusing? What’s the point? Or do you instead want to accomplish, to grow? But after a trillion trillion trillion years have passed, what’s left to accomplish?

You probably didn’t intend that to sound kind of consumerist, like an endless mall of satisfaction. Is the purpose of life to be satisfied? Where’s it say that then?
Interesting how all of your complaints in your initial post were about how “boring” eternity will be and yet you accuse me of being the “consumerist.” Aren’t you the one who went on and on about how excruciating the experience of eternity would be? That sounds much more like a “consumerist” complaining with buyer’s regret than the point I was making.

I suppose if you take “satisfaction” at its most literal and hedonistic you might have the impression that my argument could be read that way, and given that you defined lack of fulfillment as boredom, I can see how you would fall into that trap.

No, actually, I take satisfaction to be related to the wholeness of the being of the individual in question, in the sense of what it means to be fully human. Given that we have a kind of “open architecture” or open nature into which God himself can slip and become fully human while remaining fully divine, that seems to entail that what it would take to fully satisfy or complete our nature is intimate union with God himself, I.e., the beatific union. So let’s not reduce the idea to crass commercialism.

It is more a matter of our telos or the realization of our ultimate reason for being, I.e., God’s intended purpose for each of us, that which we can scarce imagine and very likely don’t even clearly desire in this life. Some might even recoil from it (💡 Think: the light in Plato’s cave that blinded some while drawing others to it)
 
The afterlife matters because we are then allowed to see the beatific vision which was denied us after the fall of Adam and Eve. This is our goal in life- to see the beatific vision. No one can possibly fathom the beauty of God and the joy of seeing Him face to face.
 
It will be a very long time. It matters. The part that matters least is our time on earth!
 
And I thought I was being Aristotelian🤔
Hate to break it to you but he wasn’t a Catholic. And he thought there were five elements. And that flies form spontaneously. Not exactly an authority on the afterlife.
Interesting how all of your complaints in your initial post were about how “boring” eternity will be and yet you accuse me of being the “consumerist.” Aren’t you the one who went on and on about how excruciating the experience of eternity would be? That sounds much more like a “consumerist” complaining with buyer’s regret than the point I was making.

I suppose if you take “satisfaction” at its most literal and hedonistic you might have the impression that my argument could be read that way, and given that you defined lack of fulfillment as boredom, I can see how you would fall into that trap.
Hang on. People tell me (well, you tell me) that Catholic philosophers have worked out everything about the afterlife. Now you say it’s your argument.

How come I can’t buy a book telling me everything I ever wanted to know about the afterlife? Clue: In 2000 years, never been written.
No, actually, I take satisfaction to be related to the wholeness of the being of the individual in question, in the sense of what it means to be fully human. Given that we have a kind of “open architecture” or open nature into which God himself can slip and become fully human while remaining fully divine, that seems to entail that what it would take to fully satisfy or complete our nature is intimate union with God himself, I.e., the beatific union. So let’s not reduce the idea to crass commercialism.

It is more a matter of our telos or the realization of our ultimate reason for being, I.e., God’s intended purpose for each of us, that which we can scarce imagine and very likely don’t even clearly desire in this life. Some might even recoil from it (💡 Think: the light in Plato’s cave that bli nded some while drawing others to it)
All very fine in poetry corner but you didn’t get round to saying what’s the point of a trillion trillion trillion years of it. There isn’t any. Eternal life only works as wishful thinking. As soon as you think about it, it’s crystal clear that God is right to give us limited time, limited time is His gift to us.

(This new CAF editor can’t do mobile so sorry for mistakes. Weekend and here’s what we’re listening to. Might just sound a bit repetitive after a trillion trillion trillion years.)

 
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The two most basic questions of our species are: Where did we come from? and Where are we going? Your friend does not sound like a believer, or one who has enjoyed life. C.S. Lewis wrote a phase that would seem to apply here, and I paraphrase it: If every desire of man can be satisfied in this world, except one, that indicates that we are made for another world.

That “other world” is what answers the two basic questions that arise in our hearts. That world, and eternity, are the sources of our hope. Your friend sounds as though they have lost hope and are just coasting this life out to the end. That seems to indicate a past, and certainly a present, that are not filled with joy - as well as a future which will certainly not be.

Before discussing the fine points, or even the basics of the faith, I think I would focus on their spiritual state and their philosophy of life. It seems that there you will find their dissatisfaction with life. You goal should be to help make them dissatisfied with their dissatisfaction.
 
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