Thankyou for people’s help … some points have stuck out to me particularly …
Muslims do not believe that jesus died on the cross, they believe he was magically swapped for Judas at the last minute and that Jesus and Mary Magdalene married, had kids…
I have heard of the magic swapping trick … but do they also believe he married Mary Magdalene? I have never heard that, is that in the Koran or is that a tradition?
Islam is all about submission to a God who is essentially unknowable.
ok, i was not unaware they believe God is unknowable. I was told they believe in a personal god
Forget your opinions about Jesus and read the Gospels. If you open your heart, the Holy Spirit will reveal Christ to you and you will experience his love.
This is a core problem I have in relation to Catholicism. I will try to explain it. When I read the gospels, my own understanding gathered from simply reading the words as you would from any other written text … the Jesus I read about in the gospels is different to the Jesus of Catholicism. I will try to address this later in more detail. I also know that in catholicism we (as lay people) are not allowed to interpret the Bible because if we do we will go to hell, as you can see this gives rise to many problems for me
Christianity on the other hand, teaches that Jesus has already achieved salvation for us. He has opened the door for us. All we have to do is love him. We keep his commandments out of love, not because we feel that we have to in order to achieve redemption.
then why all the talk and threats with hell and declarations of anathema? Why the belief that most people, including catholics, will go to hell (ie. St ? of Port Maurice - their name escapes me at the moment), everyone none-catholic will go to hell where God will torture and torment us for eternity for simply getting our faith wrong

If salvation is already attained … why the hellfire and brimstone. This is a serious question one that no-one has answered for me
do you realize that we can only call God our Father because His Son told us that?
With respect I disagree with that. For us to call God Father does not necessitate that He has a Son, a child … to my understanding (which i know according to catholics is nothing since I am a lay person and incapable of interpreting things for myself), God can be called Father as the Loving Creator of all things. There is no necessity for a Son to exist, for as creator God is ‘father’.
That’s my understanding
(though being a Father to a Son would make God radically a Father)
There is plenty of good advice on these threads as it pertains to your particular predicament.
If you want a simpler faith without “complications”…you can have that in catholicism.
Yes there is and I am grateful for the people who do give me good advice

If there is simple faith in catholicism … PLEASE point it out to me because I can’t find it. When I say ‘simplicity’ in Islam I suppose what I am referring to is the five pillars 1.faith, 2.pilgrimage, 3. fasting, 4. charity, 5. prayer. Five simple points to keep a focus on.
In catholicism I have not heard or known anything similar to this. I have heard “love one another”. ok how do you do that?

and thats where it starts … well (deep breath) go to confession every Saturday, go to Mass every day if you can, but don;t go too much or you will sin against the Body and Blood of Christ, pray the rosary, fast on days of obligations, what days are obligations? well there’s pre-Vatican days of obligations and post-vatican II days of obligations, fast three times a week, fast on solemnities, go to church on the Feast of the Assumption, fast for forty days in lent, fast all advent, pray seven times a day with the Divine Office, use holy water to keep the devil away, pray the Divine Mercy chaplet, keep the 3pm Holy Hour, pray the stations of the cross, read the imitation by Thomas Kempis, read the gospel but don;t interpret it! that’s for priests and Bishops, discern your vocation to being single, married, religious, don’t use contraception, don’t have natural feelings of attraction to the opposite gender because that’s lust and you’ll go to hell, examine your conscience everyday, pray three hail Mary’s for graces, pray the chaplet of the Holy Wounds for the conversion of sinners …

I don’t intend that to be offensive but that is always what ‘living’ the catholic faith sounds like to me

its a recipe for despair because I can’t keep up with it. I have tried and I can’t, and after a while it gets very off putting. As I said before I don;t intend to offend anyone. But if anyone can put simply what and how the catholic faith is to be lived, please please tell me
Maybe a ten-point plan to living the catholic faith
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