Well at least it’s not as bad as Mardi Gras, celebrations, lol.
As a kid growing up, there was some pretty good family bonding amongst my siblings with harmless costumes in the suburbs amongst friends. Of course as we grew up, by the time we were teenagers we didn’t care about Halloween, and by then, we didn’t go out for candy anymore so we’d chaperone, our younger family members to get candy in their cute little costumes. By the time we all reached high school , and as my older siblings and I went to college consecutively, that left my parents in charge, who didn’t care for the holiday when we grew up, so they turned out the lights, no more candy for kids, lol)…pretty fickle. But, that’ does highlight innocuous Halloween was for us.
While I agree with some of the comments of that paper in the article, about it being hijacked by adults to promote wanton / terror stuff.
The immoral people who go overboard, just like with Mardi Gras, celebrations will be immoral anyway, no matter what. Yes, they should be discouraged from being of influence, but I just don’t see mainstream people going above and beyond costumes/decorations or paying attention to the weirdos who are
“way” into it… and pardon my language, you know? The freaks.
We have to remember anything can be turned into a good, too. Nobody when we were kids threatened “Trick” if we didn’t get candy, people don’t bother to consider the “trick” anymore unless they’re already the prankster jerk kids, but little 8 year olds are chaperoned.
And house’s that didn’t participate just left their lights off. Maybe I’m out of touch with today’s kids, but when I see cute toddlers in bug outfits still, so I don’t really think the holiday is that outrageous from when I was a kid.
I had a pleasant experience, and the use of Halloween as an excuse for older people to celebrate it by having costume parties (akin to Masquerade balls) seems like nothing to be worried about.
My Halloween experience growing up was pretty joyous and happy even if it was a secular participation, and we still celebrated feast days.