Utah judge removes child from lesbian foster parents

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For placing personal prejudice above the law and recommendations of the relevant authorities.
We could characterize two lesbians wanting to adopt a child as also placing “personal prejudice” above biological reality and natural law – both of which supercede a merely capricious “law” cobbled together by five human beings who presume to place their personal prejudices above nature and biological reality.
 
We could characterize two lesbians wanting to adopt a child as also placing “personal prejudice” above biological reality and natural law – both of which supercede a merely capricious “law” cobbled together by five human beings who presume to place their personal prejudices above nature and biological reality.
“Biological reality” and “natural law” are not the legal standard in this country.
 
Because you are in the position of determining what constitutes the child’s “well-being” for that child based upon your personal prejudices?
Based on the determination of the relevant authority, yes.
 
“Biological reality” and “natural law” are not the legal standard in this country.
Of course not. The legal standard in this country is the capricious will of the political and legal oligarchy who clearly have no standards whatsoever besides pandering to the loud and influential voices who seek to “mold” (in the fungal sense) all standards whatsoever.
 
Of course not. The legal standard in this country is the capricious will of the political and legal oligarchy who clearly have no standards whatsoever besides pandering to the loud and influential voices who seek to “mold” (in the fungal sense) all standards whatsoever.
I’ll take capriciousness over pharisees and hypocrites.
 
The judge had no grounds on which to allege that the child’s well-being was at risk.
The culture in which a child is being raised must also be taken into account.

Is it fair to subject a child to being ridiculed or ostracized if the majority of people around him or her don’t accept the lifestyle? What if this was a predominantly Muslim area - should a child be used to prove a point or take a stand?
 
The culture in which a child is being raised must also be taken into account.

Is it fair to subject a child to being ridiculed or ostracized if the majority of people around him or her don’t accept the lifestyle? What if this was a predominantly Muslim area - should a child be used to prove a point or take a stand?
Lets put the shoe on the other foot. Would you be averse to a judge proclaiming that a couple cannot adopt because Catholics are unfit to raise children on the grounds that a lot of people in the Bible Belt don’t like Catholicism?
 
Based on the determination of the relevant authority, yes.
The “relevant authorities” don’t care about children or their futures in any real sense, which is why these so-called “authorities” have permitted the wholesale dismemberment of some 58 million (and counting) babies and the marketing of their body parts for profit.

Yes, those “relevant” authorities should definitely be trusted to know what “concern for the well-being of children” means.
 
Lets put the shoe on the other foot. Would you be averse to a judge proclaiming that a couple cannot adopt because Catholics are unfit to raise children on the grounds that a lot of people in the Bible Belt don’t like Catholicism?
I would care more about the well-being of the child than my rights as a Catholic if I were going to continue to live in such an area.
 
I would care more about the well-being of the child than my rights as a Catholic if I were going to continue to live in such an area.
Then the difference between you and I is that I fight injustice. A loving home that meets the standards of the relevant authorities is in the best interest of the child. Not bouncing her around in the foster system indefinitely just because one judge doesn’t like gays.
 
Then the difference between you and I is that I fight injustice.
Define “injustice.”

I define it as “giving to each what is their due or what they are owed.”

A child is owed a responsible and caring mother and a father from the time they are conceived to the time (minimally) that they are old enough to look after themselves. That is the just thing to fight for.
 
Not bouncing her around in the foster system indefinitely just because one judge doesn’t like gays.
You seem to have your own prejudices about the judge since you are ascribing to him a motive (doesn’t like gays) as the only reason he could possibly have for his decision. You are prejudging him despite a lack of evidence and your own predeliction to see things one way and not another. That is the very definition of “prejudice.”
 
You seem to have your own prejudices about the judge since you are ascribing to him a motive (doesn’t like gays) as the only reason he could possibly have for his decision. You are prejudging him despite a lack of evidence and your own predeliction to see things one way and not another. That is the very definition of “prejudice.”
The evidence is the ruling itself.
 
I feel bad for the couple who grew close to the kid and were forced to give them up. what ever happened to freedom of religion where no one can force it on people?
I have to agree with you. It seems cruel beyond measure to take a child from a couple who’s already been given custody. I’m not saying I’m necessarily in favor of gay couples adopting children, either, but to give a child to a couple and then to take it away, is probably as damaging to the child as it is to the former adoptive parents. Early childhood trauma has permanent, lifelong effects.
 
The evidence is the ruling itself.
The ruling is based upon the findings of the judge. The findings for the ruling are the issue, not the “ruling itself.”

You do understand what “begging the question” is, yes?

This could be turned around on you. Someone could claim that your objection to the judge’s ruling is the evidence that you are prejudiced against the judge because you are not permitting him any possible rationally defensible warrant for his decision.

Simply put, if you cannot allow any possible reason for the judge to justify his finding, your claim amounts to: “The judge is wrong because he is wrong.”
 
The ruling is based upon the findings of the judge. The findings for the ruling are the issue, not the “ruling itself.”

You do understand what “begging the question” is, yes?

This could be turned around on you. Someone could claim that your objection to the judge’s ruling is the evidence that you are prejudiced against the judge because you are not permitting him any possible rationally defensible warrant for his decision.

Simply put, if you cannot allow any possible reason for the judge to justify his finding, your claim amounts to: “The judge is wrong because he is wrong.”
There is plenty wrong with the judge’s ruling. He did not judge fitness based on any of the criteria defined by law, disregarded the findings of the relevant authorities, disregarded the wishes of the biological mother, did not evaluate the circumstances of the specific couple, and instead went way beyond the scope of his authority and declared that an entire class of citizenry is unfit to raise children and refused to disclose the basis of this opinion. Disclosure or not, the basis is clear; personal prejudice. Its no different than denying a couple adoption for no reason other than their race or religion.
 
Then the difference between you and I is that I fight injustice. A loving home that meets the standards of the relevant authorities is in the best interest of the child. Not bouncing her around in the foster system indefinitely just because one judge doesn’t like gays.
I fight injustice but not by using a child as the weapon.

You are making an assumption that they will be in a loving, stable home and not bounced around. I know of a gay woman who bounced around with her three kids from one relationship to another. Two are adopted children.

Nobody says the baby will get bounced around in foster care. Perhaps she will get adopted by another loving couple.
 
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