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It would be interesting to see what Dr. Hilgers would do for such a case. I would definately email him at the Pope Paul VI Institute if I were in this situation.
Exactly what happened to me at age 31. We had two children at the time. I had a fibroid, doctor suggested hysterectomy, leave the ovaries. I did and never looked back. I am 50 now and have not lost one bit of libido…(so that is a myth). You’d be surprised how much it increases knowing you definately won’t get pregnant.It’s dangerous to get pregnant. The uterous lining is thinned a great deal. I think bleeding/hemmoraging is the problem.
You can have a hysterectomy and leave the ovaries so that the hormones remain. My mother had one done when I was little for excess bleeding problems, but they left her ovaries and she went through menopause normally, except for the bleeding.
I keep seeing this comment…who on this thread is being judgemental? We are all trying to figure out the moral implications of the procedure and the fact that docs expect you to be sterilized. Is it okay to avoid the hysterectomy and have the oblation and sterilization? I don’t know, but I lean toward it being a moral problem.As far as those who would judge us, let them live with anemia, “gushers” that soak all the way through their outer clothing, two-week-long periods, and all of the other joys that accompany fibroids and polyps before they throw stones.
That’s my point. I dont think my situation is as extreme as others, so I don’t think I need the procedure as badly as those women who become anemic, two week long periods, gushers, etc. But I do think doctors are freely offering them to women like me who might not really need it as badly.I have a couple of friends who have had this procedure. Both are in their late 40’s and had fibroids and very heavy periods resulting in anemia. One has had very good results, but the other continues to have periods, just not quite as heavy. I was offered the option, but chose instead to have a hysteroscopy D&C because polyps were more of a problem than fibroids in my case…and that did nothing to help my two-week-long periods.Another friend had a procedure called uterine fibroid embolization, which blocks the blood vessels feeding the fibroids, in order to treat her condition All four of us were considered candidates for hysterectomy; we weren’t just having procedures in order to be rid of discomfort and annoyance. I know that our situations are different than those of many of you reading this because we are beyond the child-bearing years, but I have only heard of people getting ablations as a last-ditch effort to avoid hysterectomy. As far as those who would judge us, let them live with anemia, “gushers” that soak all the way through their outer clothing, two-week-long periods, and all of the other joys that accompany fibroids and polyps before they throw stones.
Right, the ablation ISN’T sterilization. The part many of us question is when the Doc says you have to be sterilized or you can’t have the procedure done. That’s the sticking point, not the ablation itself.This is not forced sterlization…it is to relieve the agony so you can continue to raise the children that you already have.
I had heard of this a few years ago. It’s actually called Essure. Here’s a link to info on the Mayo Clinic site. It just looks like a really creepy device to me! I think the reason it is touted as an alternative to a tubal is because there’s not actually a surgery to implant the device.Sorta related question: I know this thread is about the procedure as a treatment for horrible periods, but lately I’ve been hearing commercials for some nonsurgical “permanant” bc method called “Assure” (I think), touted as an alternative to tubals/vasectomies, that sounds like the same thing. Does anyone know anything about this? If it is the same thing, simply being marketed instead as bc, then it wouldn’t make sense to require sterilization w/ the procedure in the original (when it’s being done for medical purposes).
In Christ,
Ellen
Ew, that is creepy! Thanks for that info. So it’s totally not the same thing, it’s just giving someone a tubal w/o actually tying her tubes (destroying them from the inside instead of the outside). I guess the name similarity (Essure/Novasure) got me confused.I had heard of this a few years ago. It’s actually called Essure. Here’s a link to info on the Mayo Clinic site. It just looks like a really creepy device to me! I think the reason it is touted as an alternative to a tubal is because there’s not actually a surgery to implant the device.
No, it is not a martyr complex. As I stated before, I think I am in the category of women who have cramps and heavy periods, but not enough to call it “agony” or be flat on my back. I choose to put up with the inconvenience of what I do experience and offer any pain/dirty laundry up to God. I have to admit that if my symptoms became much worse, I’d consider the procedure.Basically it wasn’t a question of morality for me. I had two kids, I am blessed. I really don’t see how being in agony and flat on your back several days of the month are good for you if you already have children to care for. Is it a martyr complex? I am just asking the question.
If women go to their gyn complaining about severe cramping, extremely heavy periods…expect “hysterectomy” to be the response. If I didn’t have the fibroid and was experiencing what Carrie and some of her friends were…I would say “when’s the surgery?” and I would have had a hysterectomy…end of story.
This is not forced sterlization…it is to relieve the agony so you can continue to raise the children that you already have.
Yes Island Oak. Sounds like you were a perfect candidate for this procedure!Island Oak,
I’m glad you were able to have relief for you symptoms. Sounds like you make the right choice for your situation.
God bless,