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The_Old_Medic
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I refuse to kneel during communion. I also do not kneel during the consecration. I sit during the Consecration, and I bow from the waist. It frankly is nobodys business why I do not kneel, but i will explain.
I can NOT physically kneel on a bare floor. If I do, I have great pain (about 9 on a 1-10 scale, instantly), and I can not get up without assistance. This is because of two major compression fractures in my spine, extensive Psoriatic Arthritis and the results of being shot in the hip in 1964 in Vietnam.
I CAN kneel on a kneeler, or at an alter rail with a step up from the bare floor, but it is with great pain and I have significant difficulty getting up. I have to push off, and sometimes it takes a couple of tries to get up. It causes pain that usually takes some thirty minutes to an hour to completely subside (even with taking strong pain medication), which I take so that I CAN get to Mass in the first place.
I do not “look disabled” to others. I have had people come up to me and ask why I am “so disrespectful” because I do not kneel during the consecration, etc. I generally ignore their question, because frankly my pain and my disabilities are not any of their business.
And they have absolutely no right to be judging me, or anyone else.
I do not see inflicting a significant amount of unnecessary pain upon myself to be worshipful. It does NOT in any way improve the religious experience. And frankly, no human being should be judging another because of situations like this.
Jesus did NOT make people conform to any particular behavioral pattern. He took them as he found them, forgave their sins and sent them on their way. Over and over again, he rebuked those that said that only those that “conform” should get his attention.
Why do we insist on complicating a truly simple and profound process and message?
Jesus himself provided the Sacrament to his disciples while they were RECLINING AT SUPPER. He didn’t have them kneel down, stick out their tongues, etc. He didn’t require some “dumb show” to prove how observant they were. He broke the bread and distributed it to his disciples. It was NOT unleavened bread, it was not some sterile “host”, it was a loaf of bread for the table. He was actually eating a MEAL with his friends, which is why it was called the “Last Supper”.
We tend to forget that our savior was a living breathing CARPENTER. He was not some “supernatural” being walking around, he was a man in every respect. he had hunger, just like any other man. He had to go to the bathroom, like any other man. He bathed, he itched, his feet hurt after walking all day, just like any other normal human being.
If he was NOT a normal human being in every respect, then his experience on this earth, including his death, would have no meaning to mankind at all. He “became man”, with all of the foibles that man has. He got mad, and he used a whip to drive the money changers out of the temple. That shows he had a human temper.
Yes, he was God, but he did not utilize that “being” while he walked and talked on this earth. He “became man” in every respect. The Gospels do not paint a picture of some prissy “God like being”, they show a MAN in every respect.
We tend to forget that. But we darn well shouldn’t, because it is at the heart of what our religion means. The early Christians remembered that he was a man. Not s “mystical man”, not some"semblance" of a man, but a real, living and breathing man. With all of the strengths, and all but ONE of the weaknesses of being a man. The ONLY attribute that we have that he did not, was SIN.
Just as Jesus showed by his own example, early Christians had Communion as a part of a meal. How, and why, have we so complicated what was meant to be an act of fellowship and friendship among the believers? Yes, it IS HIS body, but he didn’t treat it as some mystical thing to be treated as something odd. He treated it as a part of the meal, a meal that he shared with his friends.
Yes, it is the body and blood of our Lord and Savior. It should always be treated as such. But, over and over and over again in the Gospels, Jesus condemned the kinds of “religious behaviors” that so many are insisting on today. That’s what he railed against the Pharisees about, they were all show, and no action.
For far too many Catholics, the show appears to be what is important. If you don’t kneel, don’t do everything exactly as we THINK you should, you are a 2nd rate Catholic (if a Catholic at all). They have totally lost the message of Christ, and have gotten caught up in the ritual to the point that the ritual is all that is really important. Exactly what Jesus said was WRONG.
I am sorry, but Pope Benedict XVI is simply wrong on this issue. He is doing EXACTLY what the Pharisees did, making the right behavior be the model, instead of the belief. And Jesus himself condemned that kind of thinking. He rebuked his followers for attempting to impose their “rules” on other people.
After reading some of the comments made by the “true believers” on this subject, and on a number of other threads on these forums, I begin to understand why there are so many “Protesting Churches”. Those that attempt to impose their vision of what Catholicism should be, drive far more people away from the church than they attract.
It is MY church too, and the fanatics will NOT drive me out of it.
I can NOT physically kneel on a bare floor. If I do, I have great pain (about 9 on a 1-10 scale, instantly), and I can not get up without assistance. This is because of two major compression fractures in my spine, extensive Psoriatic Arthritis and the results of being shot in the hip in 1964 in Vietnam.
I CAN kneel on a kneeler, or at an alter rail with a step up from the bare floor, but it is with great pain and I have significant difficulty getting up. I have to push off, and sometimes it takes a couple of tries to get up. It causes pain that usually takes some thirty minutes to an hour to completely subside (even with taking strong pain medication), which I take so that I CAN get to Mass in the first place.
I do not “look disabled” to others. I have had people come up to me and ask why I am “so disrespectful” because I do not kneel during the consecration, etc. I generally ignore their question, because frankly my pain and my disabilities are not any of their business.
And they have absolutely no right to be judging me, or anyone else.
I do not see inflicting a significant amount of unnecessary pain upon myself to be worshipful. It does NOT in any way improve the religious experience. And frankly, no human being should be judging another because of situations like this.
Jesus did NOT make people conform to any particular behavioral pattern. He took them as he found them, forgave their sins and sent them on their way. Over and over again, he rebuked those that said that only those that “conform” should get his attention.
Why do we insist on complicating a truly simple and profound process and message?
Jesus himself provided the Sacrament to his disciples while they were RECLINING AT SUPPER. He didn’t have them kneel down, stick out their tongues, etc. He didn’t require some “dumb show” to prove how observant they were. He broke the bread and distributed it to his disciples. It was NOT unleavened bread, it was not some sterile “host”, it was a loaf of bread for the table. He was actually eating a MEAL with his friends, which is why it was called the “Last Supper”.
We tend to forget that our savior was a living breathing CARPENTER. He was not some “supernatural” being walking around, he was a man in every respect. he had hunger, just like any other man. He had to go to the bathroom, like any other man. He bathed, he itched, his feet hurt after walking all day, just like any other normal human being.
If he was NOT a normal human being in every respect, then his experience on this earth, including his death, would have no meaning to mankind at all. He “became man”, with all of the foibles that man has. He got mad, and he used a whip to drive the money changers out of the temple. That shows he had a human temper.
Yes, he was God, but he did not utilize that “being” while he walked and talked on this earth. He “became man” in every respect. The Gospels do not paint a picture of some prissy “God like being”, they show a MAN in every respect.
We tend to forget that. But we darn well shouldn’t, because it is at the heart of what our religion means. The early Christians remembered that he was a man. Not s “mystical man”, not some"semblance" of a man, but a real, living and breathing man. With all of the strengths, and all but ONE of the weaknesses of being a man. The ONLY attribute that we have that he did not, was SIN.
Just as Jesus showed by his own example, early Christians had Communion as a part of a meal. How, and why, have we so complicated what was meant to be an act of fellowship and friendship among the believers? Yes, it IS HIS body, but he didn’t treat it as some mystical thing to be treated as something odd. He treated it as a part of the meal, a meal that he shared with his friends.
Yes, it is the body and blood of our Lord and Savior. It should always be treated as such. But, over and over and over again in the Gospels, Jesus condemned the kinds of “religious behaviors” that so many are insisting on today. That’s what he railed against the Pharisees about, they were all show, and no action.
For far too many Catholics, the show appears to be what is important. If you don’t kneel, don’t do everything exactly as we THINK you should, you are a 2nd rate Catholic (if a Catholic at all). They have totally lost the message of Christ, and have gotten caught up in the ritual to the point that the ritual is all that is really important. Exactly what Jesus said was WRONG.
I am sorry, but Pope Benedict XVI is simply wrong on this issue. He is doing EXACTLY what the Pharisees did, making the right behavior be the model, instead of the belief. And Jesus himself condemned that kind of thinking. He rebuked his followers for attempting to impose their “rules” on other people.
After reading some of the comments made by the “true believers” on this subject, and on a number of other threads on these forums, I begin to understand why there are so many “Protesting Churches”. Those that attempt to impose their vision of what Catholicism should be, drive far more people away from the church than they attract.
It is MY church too, and the fanatics will NOT drive me out of it.