As I said, I find all the extra stuff distracting so it decreases the reverence for me. Also I prepare the liturgies in our parish so I know that we follow the GIRM to the letter and our priests celebrate it with much reverence. Our music is good and while there are some people who are a bit casual, most are very reverent.
Sorry that you find all the “extra stuff’” distracting. The Protestant reformers thought the same thing. They wanted to remove all that 'extra stuff" because they considered it distracting. I have been to many Masses of the Ordinary Form where the Host and Chalice are not elevated and the bells are not rung, bowing one’s head instead of genuflecting, standing instead of kneeling, the priest using the shortest Eucharistic prayer intead of the Roman Canon. All are allowed under the GIRM but nontheless lead to a loss of sacredness in the Mass.
The Council of Trent responded directly to the reformers.
*On the solemn ceremonies of the Sacrifice of the Mass. *
And whereas such is the nature of man, that, without external helps, he cannot easily be raised to the meditation of divine things; therefore has holy Mother Church instituted certain rites, to wit that certain things be pronounced in the mass in a low, and others in a louder, tone.
She has likewise employed ceremonies, such as mystic benedictions, lights, incense, vestments, and many other things of this kind, derived from an apostolical discipline and tradition, whereby both the majesty of so great a sacrifice might be recommended, and the minds of the faithful be excited, by those visible signs of religion and piety, to the contemplation of those most sublime things which are hidden in this sacrifice.
(Council of Trent, Session 22, Chapter V)
Canon 7. If anyone says that the ceremonies, vestments, and outward signs which the Catholic Church uses in the celebration of masses, are incentives to impiety **rather than stimulants to piety ** let him be anathema.