When my daughter was preparing for the Sacrament of First Holy Communion, she told me that she wanted to receive on her tongue but her teacher told her that she had to receive in her hand. Speaking with the teacher got us nowhere so I went to speak to the priest. His attitude was that everyone else was receiving in the hand and he wanted there to be uniformity. I reminded him that Holy Mother Church gives us the option of recieving on our tonuge or in our hand and that by not teaching the children that they had a choice they (the priest and teacher) were taking that choice away from them. He responded that I was right and my daughter received Jesus on her tongue. A few of the other children did as well. When my second daughter asked me during Mass once why people don’t just receive in their hand I shushed her and told her we would talk about it after Mass, then she sneezed in her hand and I leaned over and said quietly, “That’s why”. She has received on her tongue ever since.
I think that the crises of Faith and the lack of reverance that is proper to Jesus in the Eucharist and the Mass is due to poor catechesis plain and simple. Over 30 years of poor and improper catechesis has many Catholics not believing in the True Presence, many Catholics thinking that the Church is a democracy and we can pick and choose what we want. The crisis in the Church today is primarily a crisis of education.