I have carefully read this thread and need advice. I am torn in this case and can see the points of view from a practical and an emotional stand point. My conflict comes because he has been filling in saying mass in our parish since our pastor had emergency surgery last Friday. We have an associate pastor but we are a large parish and our needs are met by two full-time priests. We are only just beginning to heal from the scandle from our previous pastor who was here for a dozen years. What is my responsibility to “spread the word” to parents, especially those who have children who serve mass? We were not informed of this in advance, it was just announced, a “non-issue” approach. I need the guidance of the charitable yet wise on this forum. I would like to say I have a great love and respect for priests and the blessings they have brought to my life in abundance. The possiblity of our parish even dealing with a painful, even if it is false, accusation will be an incredible suffering, why would they send him to fill in here, where we have had such personal pain? why would they put him in a parish that has 850 students across the street? I do not understand but feel a responsibility to share with parents this information, not to scandelize this man, but to guard the innocent…