I just think we view things from different perspectives. Your are very loving and protective of the Church which is admirable, it is innocent love in my view though.
I am much more cynical, I have seen the Church make many mistakes in my lifetime and know through history many of its errors as well. Many bishops, priests, and even some popes have done horrible things. In our modern society the Church is very corrupted from within. There is absolutely no reason that I can see to completely trust without question what a leader in the Church does, it would be naive in my view.
You can both support the Holy Church and the Holy Father and still wage war against the evil inside it.
To put it in a analogy, it would be destructive to be obedient to Darth Vader or Palpatine because they were also priests of the “force.” They are the Jedi knights that have gone bad and need to be defeated. Maybe not a perfect analogy but it somewhat reflects my position.
I am not saying the Holy Father is a Sith Lord by the way, I am just saying that some in the Church are.