Sorry to say this (actually, not really, or I wouldn’t), but… Ahem… Willfully committing a venial sin does not make it mortal. Or else most who have told white lies (I know I have, albeit infrequent, but I try not to) would not be able to receive communion.
Why would such a person not be able to receive communion? All one needs do is to be contrite and go to confession…Then one is free to receive.
Seriously - I appreciate the questioning because it helps me to work through some of this. Also, please recognize that what I express here is my own devotional view as enlightened by Church teaching and the Holy Spirit.
I do understand that not all sins will automatically become grave matter in and of themselves because of full knowledge and consent. However, when considering this whole issue, I had to ask myself, "if I fully know that something is a sin and I fully choose to do it anyway, what does this say about my Love for God and neighbor in accordance with the two great commandments? (Mt 22:36-40)
It’s pretty obvious that full knowledge and consent means that I am acting, not out of imperfection for my conscience and my intellect have told me this is wrong, but rather out of defiance because, knowing full well that the sin hurts me and saddens God, I say in essence, “get behind me Jesus”, and proceed to commit the sin…
So perhaps the proper question would be, If the direct sin does not come up to “grave matter” what about the sin of deliberately doing something against the Love of God?
I do think however that you have to have a will to stop whatever the venial sin may be at confession (hence the “I promise … To avoid whatever leads me to sin” ). But we’re human.
You are absolutely right and I don’t want to come off here as some draconian “fire and brimstone” type. There are many factors that come into play such as bad habits that we just have not been able to overcome…Plus there are those who stuggle with scrupulocity and I do not wish to trouble such ones.
The essence of sanctification, of growing in holiness, is in the struggle to overcome. Let us continue to strive together for that perfection to which we are called.
And it would be blaspheming (from my understanding, correct me if I’m wrong) the church to support that man is perfect. God wants us to to aspire to be perfect, but He knows that we can’t (that’s how I translate Mt. 5:48 Anyway) Only He is perfect. He will not hold us guilty of mortal sin for committing a venial sin willfully. It angers him, and we should avoid all sin, but we’re not mortal sinners for committing a venial sin. We’re all sinners.
So long as we are giving it our best efforts, and relying on the Grace and Love and Mercy of God, then I agree that He will not hold us guilty…But the key here is that it must be our “best efforts”. In too many catholics, and in christians in general, I see a tendancy to just try and glide along figuring that doing the minimum is good enough…Too many Catholics seem to set their sights on purgatory instead of on heaven…
As for Mt 5:48, yes God knows that we are imperfect, and that we stumble…But I don’t think that He is going to view our imperfection as carte blanche for habitual sin either…
He says we are called to perfection and that is good enough for me to set out on the journey. I may not be able to reach that perfection before my corporeal death, but i hope not to be caught napping when I should be striving.
If I’m misinterpreting Catholic faith, please tell me. Thank you.
No - I don’t think that you are misinterpreting. Your questions are good ones and I appreciate how they make me think through my position and try to accurately communicate that which the Holy Spirit has inspired in me.
I believe that one of the issues is that, while the Western Church and the Catachism, are very – uummm – linear, rational and even legalistic in it’s language, I personally lean toward a more eastern, wholistic, mystical view. I start from the Two Great Commandments of Love, upon which Jesus tells us all law is based, and work my way out from there…Or I take a church teaching and look to see how it fits into the “Law of Love”.
Overall I find these conversations stimulating and helpful I hope others do as well.
Peace
James