JesusFreak16:
Just a question, I am not trying to disprove, just understand. I have never confessed to anyone except for God. Do you believe that I have not received forgiveness even though I have asked for it?
God’s Peace~
Lisa
Yes, you have, since you offered contrition. But even for non-Catholics, as much as possible, contrition should be perfect, i.e. we are sorry because we love God above all else, not because we fear hell or God’s just wrath.
And of course, contrition always involves a firm resolve not to commit that sin again.
For us Catholics, perfect contrition brings forgiveness of sin. But we consider it a great blessing to really have God’s ordained representative provide a visible sign of that forgiveness. And it helps us, because we truly face our sins and accuse ourselves of them, and it is very humbling, helping us in the road to true repentance. This is why scripture commands confession of sin. And the ministry of the Church completes what may yet be impure in our motives.
Another important possibility of Confession is the power to RETAIN sins, not just forgive, which is also a power Jesus gave the Apostles that night. The priest, should he see that the penitent is not truly sorry (e.g. making excuses, or doesn’t intend to amend his life), can retain the sin and refuse absolution. Here, the penitent gets a visible sign that he is NOT forgiven, which is true. He then can re-examine his conscience and find that resolve, but God is not mocked, and the power to retain sins makes this clear. True forgiveness requires resolve to not commit the sin again.
And Reconciliarion is a Sacrament, so it is truly an action of Christ working through his Church. As previous posters pointed out, it is the exercise of the ministry of reconciliation Christ entrusted his ministers, and an exercise of the God-breathed power to absolve or retain sins.
So for you, since you’re not Catholic, you cannot receive the Sacrament of Reconciliation. What you should do when you fall is beg God for forgiveness, because you love him above all things and that you are sorry for offending him just because of who he is.