But didn’t Jesus rebuke Mary in those verses also?
Read the epistles of Paul, Peter, and the others. They always exhort us to go to Jesus to have fellowship with God and salvation. None of them said going to Mary was needed in order to come to Christ. This is a man made tradition that isn’t biblical.
No. He didn’t “rebuke” her. That is a man-made idea that is NOT found in the text or in the traditional meaning given to it. The idea that he rebuked her is quite a new one not found in the Church Fathers nor even among the Reformers, to my knowledge.
By Jesus saying his time had not yet come he was telling her his public ministry would begin, and all that was to follow, with this public miracle. And she very rightly and sensibly left it up to him when she told the servants to: “Do whatever he tells you to do.”
Only those who have some grudge against Mary’s place in God’s plans for us could possibly turn this incident into an indictment against this woman who conceived him in her womb in obedience to God, brought him up according to the Law, suffered exile and fear and poverty to care for him, walked with her Son, wept over her Son, and stood at the foot of the Cross with her Son when all but one of his Apostles had deserted him. Hardly the life of a person Jesus was always having to “put in her place”–a disgusting idea that certainly isn’t inspired by the Holy Spirit, but by quite another spirit.
The whole Mary-takes-Jesus-place thing is simply false. No Catholic thinks of Mary as divine or greater than God or the source of the graces God gives us. The notion that Catholics do think she is divine/God/source of grace is what fuels this suspicion of her, this reluctance to give her her due, this (in some cases) near hatred of her. But it’s a load of hogwash.
Jesus redeemed us, Jesus saves us, Jesus died on the cross for us, Jesus is our object of adoration and worship and God alone is our end. Mary is merely a helper on our spiritual journey–the best one anyone could possibly wish to have, if I may add my own opinions into the mix, and the greatest of the Saints, but she is not God to us nor could she ever be.
Besides, this is all off the topic. You asked about apparitions. We have attempted to give you information on the topic. If you have more questions or comments on it, please continue.
