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I am very much in agreement with you. No, we must not return to the past nor seek to do so. Yet there were some things in that past that were of value, other things were not. This is the assessment we need to make today and go forward from there.I’m not saying we should have a wholesale return to the past. Absolutely not!
I am saying that we threw the baby out with the bathwater and became so institutionalized that most Catholics believe they are either doing “holy” things or “non-holy” things and there is a very firm line between the two. We go to church, we step over the line into the “holy” territory; we come out and change diapers or prepare a meal, we step back into “non-holy” territory and we are on our own. For instance, “active in your parish” means stepping over the line into “holy” territory to perform a “ministry” which is in “holy” territory. Coming home afterwards is leaving “holy” territory and entering “non-holy” territory, just as surely as if we went through customs.
So…saying a rosary with a group of friends who support us day-to-day while we support them, for the purpose of living a Catholic life, is where on that map?
As I have said, to my way of thinking, there was an ingrained and conditioned mentality about what it means to be a good Catholic and that this had very little to do, if anything at all, with a total commitment to The Gospel at all times and in every place. “Active in The Church” meant about something at either parish or diocesan level and this was a :“ministry” and slowly we became inward looking. If one was not involved at parish or diocesan level, one was not “active in The Church” - there was no sense of a need to outreach beyond Catholics per se. We need to change this ingrained conditioning and also our inwardlooking-ness.
What we are planning in our parish is get togethers for meals in parishioners homes with all contributing to the meal and with prayer. Our prayer will not be the Rosary, but communal prayer nonetheless. Form yet to be decided. The purpose of the get togethers per se is just socializing and getting to know each other as people. This will be coupled with parish formation programs and adult Catholic education. Will it work? We can only prayerfully hope so. And if it does work, what then? That remains a future question. If it doesn’t work in the parish, then it is back to the drawing board and working out why it didn’t work and trying to come up with something that will.
If we are going to outreach beyond Catholics, then it is felt we need a strong sense of community to outreach from to non Catholics. We need to be supportive of each other in our Faith. We also need to ensure that we have sound knowledge about what we do believe, our Faith, and what it means. We need to be able to address points and answer questions with a sense of being educated in Catholicism. This is a beginning at least.
The very first and most important step in dealing with a problem is to recognize one has one and what it is and with some accuracy. From that there can be a beginning to solving the problem. All this is NOT going to happen overnight or be solved in a Catholic discussion thread. Its going to take prayerful time and commitment even in the face of failures. But at least lay people in places are trying. It is not an overall problem of laity not trying, or not caring. Not at all.