Wanting to stay home full time

[Lilyofthevalley]

Look at the flowers, do you not see how beautifully they are clothed? Do you think your Father cares less for you?​

Who cared for my mother’s friend after her husband beat her up. Was it God?No, it was the tax payer.
She would have been a fool to stay with such a man, and she had no other avenue with four children/
Amber you may want to look into some home business ideas or opportunities.
God also helps those who help themself.

 

[Jennie]

Amber,

You CAN find a way to stay home with the kids. No, it won’t be easy, but it can be done.

I worked in the hospital, and all I had to do was work 18 hours per week to get excellent health insurance. I stayed home with the kids during the day, then a few times a week I went in to work in the evenings for only a four hour shift.

The hospital was more than willing to work with MY schedule. I eventually stopped working altogether to stay home full time.
And when I did, his work provided insurance for him, me, and the kids 100%. They hadn’t done that before.

I understand your frustration, but you have to take action and make it happen.

Jennie

 

[aimekuelmc]

AmberDale:

Oh my! 6K for meds alone?

I’m not going to quit until my husband finds a job with inurance. The house and car are just material possesions, my health is not. I paid Cobra once when I had my son. I wasn’t at my job a year yet, so didn’t qualify for FMLA and if you didn’t work 360 hours in a quarter then you got bumped to part time, which canceled insurance. I was off work from October until February. My son was born 12-31. So 6 weeks later was February. Cobra sucks. But after hitting my 360 again they picked up insurance again.

I know what God is calling me to do. I just need health insurance, and until then I suppose I’ll work.
I was thinking of going to third shift in the company instead of doing secretary work. But then again when would I sleep?

Technically it’s $5469. And yes, for just my medication - and not including the medications to stop the worst side effects.
But with insurance, we pay only a pitance. I’d much rather pay Cobra than the cost of my meds.

Do you pray the Rosary daily? If not, you should try starting. And a devotion to the Eucharist is heart-wrenching as well as uplifting.

God will help you do what he is calling you too. But in his time. Keep struggling, and praying. He understands what you are going through.

I don’t believe it’s a matter of not trusting God, but waiting for his timing. You’ll know when the time is right.
Sometimes we need to be prepared first, our hearts softened to what he wants.

Remember that his voice is not in the loud thunder, blowing winds, or yelling voices.

His voice is heard in the silence.

MC

 

[AmberDale]

Please Pray for my husband. He has an interview tomorrow for a management position. He also has his hat in the ring for another position, just waiting for the interview. He is going to call back tomorrow.

Please pray for us.

 

[Jennie]

AmberDale:

Please Pray for my husband. He has an interview tomorrow for a management position. He also has his hat in the ring for another position, just waiting for the interview. He is going to call back tomorrow.

Please pray for us.

You and your husband are in my thoughts and prayers.

Jennie