My issue with your post was that you seem to be under the false impression that the documents of Vatican II somehow mandated Communion in the hand, the elimination of Latin from the Liturgy, encouraging more ‘modern’ forms of musical instruments etc, when it did nothing of the sort.
Vatican II was not some liberalising council that swept away the old and brought in the new. It was not some sort of ‘brand new dawn’ for the Church. Sacrosanctum Concilium did not mandate much of what we see today as regards the Liturgy, quite the reverse. It was actually concerned with preserving things like Latin, the pipe organ, and Gregorian chant in the Mass. It’s main thrust of reform was to open up the scripture read at Mass. It also allowed some use of the vernacular in the Liturgy (it didn’t remove Latin per se, or intend for the vernacular to replace most of the Latin used in the Mass).
It does irritate me when Vatican II is pulled out as some sort of justification for a radical ‘modernisation’ of the Liturgy, it was nothing of the sort. As Pope Benedict XVI said, the true Spirit of Vatican II is in the actual letter of the documents of Vatican II. Nowhere in any of the documents of Vatican II is there any mention, or even an indication, of some sort of ‘moving forward, modernising, vision, thingy’. But that doesn’t stop some people claiming Vatican II as a justification for things not mandated by any of the documents of Vatican II.