You are exactly correct that it is not normative of the parishes in the US. I have crossed swords with a young person here on the forums in my diocese. I can go to an OF at the indult parish and kneel at communion. I have done so and it was as natural to me as the sun rising in the East.
Dear otjm. I am not asking you to abandon your parish or kneel to recievie the Holy Eucharist. Why is this such a problem for you?
It is not a problem for me, and if I seem that way, it is not my intent. What I have issues with are those who play the “holier than thou” card repeatedly - you don’t, and I most certainly don’t include you in that group.
I grew up with believing that the Holy Eucharist was the literal Body, Blood, Soul and Divinity of Our Lord Jesus Christ. We were taught to receive Holy Communion such that, if the Eucharist stuck to the crown of our mouth, we were to gently dislodge it with our tongues (never with our fingers). I see young children at my cathedral parish consuming the Holy Eucharist as if it were a potato chip instead of the Body, Blood, Soul and Divinity of Our Lord Jesus Christ.
So have i, on all points. 8 years of Holy Name nuns; 2 years of diocesan high school, 2 years of Jesuit high school (and out befoe they went goofy), two years of diocesan seminary, and 2 years of “Notre Dame West” (and it was not goofy - a couple of profs were but we all know who they were).
I’m sorry. No. No. I do not agree with you and I understand that I don’t have a snowball’s chance in Hades of convincing you.
Of what? We agree far more than you think.
I grew up with it. I am not about to turn my back on that which I grew up with. I don’t expect you to change your feelings but I fully expect that mine might be honored. I don’t expect you to return to the usages of the past…No, I am not asking that. But I do ask you to respect the fact that there are those of us who adhere to what we grew up with. What is so frightening about that? Our Lord is present in the Most Holy Sacrifice of the Altar - Body, Blood, Soul and Divinity. He is not some potato chip to be wolfed down with a palmed Eucharist gulped down.
I don’t attend 24 hour Perpetual Adoration because I think that is a potato chip. You want respect? That sword slices both ways, buddy. That last comment is absolutely unnecessary and beneath your dignity. Please retract it.
It was Layman who suggested that we have everyone kneel at an altar rail so our 70+ year old priest could “WHIP IT OUT THERE”. If that is what the EF produces (opinions in people, not the EF itself) then God help us. If that is what is meant by reverence for the Eucharist and its distribution according to the EF, than thankyouverymuch I will vote for CITH. That is so appalling I cannot even get words around it.
May Our Lord have mercy on our souls.
Amen.
I think I am about 5 years older than you; and instead of the navy - 4 years - I took the Army - 3 years and the joy of the Delta, Can Tho and Ca Mau, Viet Nam. I got the t-shirt, ok?
I go to the Trappist Abbey about once a month. OF and certainly with reverence. Our 70+ Jesuit pastor “does the red and says the black”. We have EMHC’s, thanks be to God, because he could not sustain the level of energy he has and continue to guide the parish as he has, and I don’t give a flip what Layman thinks of that. If Layman’s concept of Christian charity, common sense and worship is what gets exhibited by those promoting the EF, I will keep the OF thankyouverymuch.
Strangely, I thought of you this weekend as I was preparing my 92 year old mother to move to a reirement facility. We were looking through a picture album which I didn’t recall; the shot that called you to mind was one of my mother and her younger sister, apparently in their 20’s to maybe early 30’s, walking in downtown Portland. Gloves, hats that would have made the Easter parade, Sunday very best suits and high heels. To go shopping. I am a west coaster, so I cannot say no one does that any more, but I honestly don’t know any woman who wears gloves to go shopping; and if they are in a suit, it was because of something else - work most likely. And I thought of you - why? Because, by and large, those days are gone - at least out here. Of course, before we wax too idylic, the Ku Klux Klan had been burning crosses out here against the Catholics not too long before. In the early 60’s you could still find Masses with Palistrina, or a Gregorian chant now and then (one of the reasons Gregorian Chant was noted in the documents bwas because it had been dying a slow death before that).
I understand your desire for the High Mass; and I don’t belittle that at all. I served Low Masses, High Masses, and was everything from a candle bearer to the MC (and that several times) at solemn High Masses. I remember the beauty of them.
I have also seen the solemness, reverence and beauty of the Chrism Mass now, and other Masses celebrated by our Archbishop (who happens to have a wonderful tenor voice, and is very fluent in Spanish). I attended an OF in another parish a few weeks ago and the priest was from Uganda, I believe; eyes sharp as a new razor, and very reverent. In the OF.
I am sorry that you miss it. I would support you being able to find it.
People, if they are too lazy and unmotivated to drive 20 to 30 minutes each way to go to one (EF), are just not that interested. I had a parish years ago that was just that far a drive and I went every Sunday, and never once complained. Why would I complain? It was my choice to do so. I went, not because of the EF/OF issue, but because I had close friends in that parish, and because I was part of that community in spite of living in the burbs.
The whining astounds me: I simply never gave it a thought.
I read about how much people love the EF, how they feel that being present in front of the Eucharist should leave them prostrate on the ground, and then I read of their whining that they have to travel to get to it; something just doesn’t jibe.
The Masses you speak of are beautiful. That is why, once a year I would take the new RCIA class to attend one - I was introducing them to it, not bad mouthing it.