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Newzie52
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Oh, boy…I will be old and gray by the time that that dd gets married in 4 months.
Her future MIL is a very bullheaded, controlling, wealthy woman used to getting her own way (dd and future SIL do just fine standing up to her.) She was most upset that we “limited” their side of the guest list to 150 (same as ours side) and delayed for months getting the list to us. They had to cut her husband’s employees (60 total, including spouses) from the list to get to the 150. I found out today that she has decided to invite them to the rehearsal dinner instead, and have a gift table!!! I find this appallingly tacky; you just don’t invite to the rehearsal dinner (or showers, for that matter) anyone not invited to the wedding. I had suggested to her that, in order to accommodate these employees, she might consider a small party, after the honeymoon, to which the bride could wear her gown, etc. I know that this sort of thing has been done. I also mentioned that anyone who wishes could certainly come to the church - no problem with that at all.
Anyway…thoughts? I am horrified by this and hate for anyone to think I condone it. The thought of the gift table is really tacky…
Her future MIL is a very bullheaded, controlling, wealthy woman used to getting her own way (dd and future SIL do just fine standing up to her.) She was most upset that we “limited” their side of the guest list to 150 (same as ours side) and delayed for months getting the list to us. They had to cut her husband’s employees (60 total, including spouses) from the list to get to the 150. I found out today that she has decided to invite them to the rehearsal dinner instead, and have a gift table!!! I find this appallingly tacky; you just don’t invite to the rehearsal dinner (or showers, for that matter) anyone not invited to the wedding. I had suggested to her that, in order to accommodate these employees, she might consider a small party, after the honeymoon, to which the bride could wear her gown, etc. I know that this sort of thing has been done. I also mentioned that anyone who wishes could certainly come to the church - no problem with that at all.
Anyway…thoughts? I am horrified by this and hate for anyone to think I condone it. The thought of the gift table is really tacky…