I write to thank Ms. Miller, BRANDYMILLER, on her heartfelt and brave message to me. Your forthrightness and courage in the face of the most atrocious things that could happen to one, especially as a child, was chilling but also a triumph for you. In sharing that with a person whom you do not know, is a lesson as well as blessing for us all to read.
However, I would ask you ro scroll through the postings and see the inference to ‘fags’ that perhaps is not as literal as the WBC placards, “GOD HATES FAGS”, “AIDS CURES FAGS”, MATTHEW AND PJ IN HELL" (in reference to Matthew Shepherd who was crucified, literally, in Wyoming for being gay and my partner, Pj, for the same reason), “SOLDIERS IN HELL”…but the feeling is still there. The fact that people talk about a gay agenda and put the word ‘gay’ in quotes, is odd to me. Prettier prose, perhaps but same inference. To have such sentiments against the young men and women who are out there defending this nation as it is something they believe they should do, and are doing it with pure heart, is sickening.
Yesterday, when I posted my message about the WBC and the Pope’s visit, I alluded to and shared a story that incorporated my feelings about being a gay and Catholic man and my experience with the Church and their rejection when I probably needed them most. People have discussed this ‘gay agenda’ of which I am not aware of, and I am rather aware of things that are going on. People have stated that “gay” people will be throwing condoms at the Pope and this, too, I have heard naught, of. However, if condoms are thrown, it is not a gay protest but an AIDS project. I would interpret their feeling that the use of condoms is not an issue of birth control, anymore, but a matter of life and death. Is it the right time and place to do such a thing, of course not.
I have received so many messages regarding my messages and responses that I am overwhelmed. Some have asked for my email address which I have given, to most. Most of the emails I have gotten are kind and loving. So different from the messages, if you have time to read them, at the WBC website. Hate filled and disgusting words. Pix of the kids, most ‘intus prosapia’ or within the same family, who are holding the above signs, or similar. I think those kids, as the kids in Texas in the Mormon compound, should be promptly removed so they can learn to think for themselves. I have written to the WBC, always ending with a prayer, for them. Not hateful at all. It has been suggested that it is ok to be gay as long as you don’t act out on these feelings. It is compared to not having sex with someone until married. If this was a similar situation, then I know that gay people would be lining up to have committment ceremonies done, with the asssistance of their spiritual guide, whether it be a priest, rabbi, minister, iman. That is not a choice, though, given to us all. The WBC, I believe, has as much to do the Word of God as a roast beef sandwich. Niente. Nothing.
In this world, where there is so much hatred, violence, mayhem, blood and bullets being flung around, in all societies, it is nice to see the word “Love” rather than “Hate” being used.
I am appreciative and grateful to those who have showed kindness toward me and my late partner, here on this site and in emails. A motto I use, often, is the Latin “Foi Vanquera”, faith heals/conquers all…and I would ask all out there to look for similarities and commonalities rather than differences, whether it is toward me or a Muslim neighbor or a person of a different color. I, as I have been doing, will pray for those in the WBC, especially the kids, and for all of you. I am tired, so tired, of having to do battle against people I do not know and issues that are so repellant. It is better, for me, to pray.
Peace.