Bad things happen to good people; that doesn’t give them the right to do a bad thing. You are not looking at this issue from the Catholic point of view, you are looking at it from the naturalist point of view in which all that matters is what happens in this world. But really the only important thing about what happens in this world is how we use it to choose our ultimate and eternal destination.
This has nothing to do with how we are wired, because as I said, God will provide the graces necessary to make our way through what happens in our lives. And how we are wired has no validity because we are all wired to sin in some ways and to have natural virtue in others. It is not how we are wired that counts, but how we put those wires together.
Women have every right to take plan B in the ER after a rape, and it’s
not a bad thing. It’s a good thing for a woman who wants to avoid a forced pregnancy as a result of rape.
I don’t believe that what happens in this world is all that matters, but I do believe that we were given our lives to live it to our fullest. What you do in this life, and how you react to this life will shape what happens in the next life. I don’t believe in destroying one’s self in this life is going to get you to heaven faster. Allowing outside forces to destroy you will only produce poison. I believe healing one’s self after a trauma is more beneficial. Yes, a forced pregancy due to rape can destroy a woman, I’ve seen it. I don’t believe God will punish a rape victim for attempting to protect herself. Risking the usage of plan B after a rape to prevent pregnancy is well worth avoiding the emotional and psychological damage resulting from a forced pregnancy on some women. It
is important.
You say that God provides the graces and I know you speak from your heart and you really believe what you’re saying, but honestly, no offense intended, but who are you to make such a claim that a blanket cure for all is out there for everyone? It’s easy to make that claim when it’s someone else’s suffering you’re talking about. It’s easy to make light of someone else’s suffering but, this is something you are not capable of understanding and relating to. Even if you had the same accidents, the same injuries, the same illnesses as the next person, you still could not apply your blanket cure for all to every person. They don’t matter to the next person. The next person has their own situation, and has their own morals and beliefs based on who they are.
God provides yes, but I believe he provided scientific and medical minds the ability to create plan B to prevent such unwanted pregnancies. Surely, plan B can’t come from evil, because even the Church allows its usage in the case of rape.
What I find ironic is that in the “old days” when people were “better” and “stood on a high moral ground”, a raped woman was disgraced. And if she was raped and pregnant, she was wisked away in her shame to have her child and give it up for adoption. And if they decided to keep the resulting child, it was a secret, it was a sibling, etc. But what now that women have a choice in the matter, a forced pregnancy is a gift and pleasure and something good? Well that can’t be if the Church allows one to take plan B in a rape situation. So we can’t say this forced pregnancy is a “gift”. Sorry, but it’s the same today as it was before, we just have more options now. Women have freedom of choice now and their body is their responsibility and not owned by a man. They can choose treatments to help them not become pregnant now. No one knows when the moment of conception is. We know it takes a few to 36 hours after sex. It doesn’t make an ounce of sense to me to say it’s not worth the risk, because it is. Intent matters. The goal is to prevent pregnancy in the case of rape, not fool around, oops and abort.
The reality is exceptions are made for rape. That’s reality. People make those exeptions even in countries where abortion is illegal because they know this to be true. I don’t see that changing. It’s always been “except for the case of rape”. Only a few extremely conservative and traditional don’t recognize rape as a valid reason for plan B. That says something about my beliefs being grounded in reality because it is a fact, and it is real.
I realize there are many who thumb their nose at the law and claim their ‘moral code’ is better. But the reality is, it’s better for that person only. The good thing about the law is that they serve both rape victims who choose plan B as well as rape victims who do not choose plan B. And that’s a good thing.