Well, it seems to me that there is a lot of room for thought on the subject then. I believe the latter that you put forth. And thatās the teaching of the OCA. (At least from the priest I learned from.) It seems to be very widely held. Iād be interested on seeing how the Orthodox differ on the subject. Any good links?
I agree that most Orthodox Iāve met agree with the idea that eternal damnation is Godās Love being felt as painful.
I think we also have to be aware that for the Orthodox, the word āhellā can have two, very different meanings. āHellā can mean āeternal damnationā ā in which case, a more accurate word would be āgehennaā. āHellā can also mean the place one exists after death, but before the Last Judgement ā in which case, a more accurate word would be āhadesā. (I actually prefer to not use āhellā at all, and just use one or the other of these two words.)
In Orthodoxy, everyone goes to āhadesā at death, which is why Jesus went there, too, as
described here.
In Orthodoxy, it commonly taught that it is only at the Last Judgement, that some persons enter into gehenna, and some into salvation. But what is common to both persons, is that they both enter into the presence of Godās Love, as
described here. Godās Love is a āriver of Fireā, and will be pleasant or painful, according to oneās spiritual state.
I suspect that most Eastern Catholics subscribe to the Orthodox perspective on these issues, a perspective, I might add, which is not inherently contradictory to the Latin perspective.