We you please explain what you mean by “speaking in tongues”. I’ve yet to heard it.
In general, speaking in Tongues is an unique gift of the Holy Spirit. Tongues is the name of the various vocal sounds which are made with the power of the Holy Spirit. They can be simple sounds or they can be complex like a human language. These sounds can be sung or they can be so quiet that only the person yielding to the power of the Holy Spirit can feel them. Whatever the sounds, they are always under the control of the individual yielding her or his speech mechanism to the Holy Spirit.
This is what happens. The Holy Spirit’s gift of Tongues enables a person to freely yield one’s speech mechanism, including lips, tongue, larynx, directly to the Holy Spirit Who in turn will use the physical aspects of speaking in two different ways.
The common use of Tongues is to transform our human prayer into a spiritual prayer to God. As in other forms of prayer, we can praise God, thank God, ask God for mercy, and petition God in Tongues. As we all know, the first and primary prayer to God is the Holy Sacrifice of the Mass. From there, we find and use our own methods of prayer such as the Rosary, Divine Office, Liturgy of the Hours, Chaplet of Divine Mercy, meditation, spontaneous prayer, praying in Tongues and so on. We need to avoid the trap of thinking that one type of prayer is better than others. We are not clones of each other; we are individuals loved deeply by our Creator. In turn, we love our Creator deeply in our chosen prayer life.
The second way is to use the yielding of the speech mechanism to the Holy Spirit as a vehicle for God to give His divine message to the community. In this particular use, there is also an Interpreter of Tongues Who will give God’s message in the language of the community. This second, separate use of Tongues is one of the nine classical gifts listed by St. Paul and requires a mature spiritual life and serious preparation. In contrast, the first use of Tongues, which is actually praying to God, requires our sincere commitment to live in surrender to God’s will…as best we can.
In both cases of using Tongues, we let go of our own thoughts, memory, and intellectual control of the sounds coming from our mouth. In both cases, Tongues requires deep humility on our part.
Tongues is traditional in that it was part of a prayer experience when adults were initiated into the Catholic Church during the early centuries following Pentecost. Tongues is also traditional in the sense that it was part of the ordinary practice of Christians in the time of St. Paul.