For me personally, the Eucharist is the Source and Summit of my faith. However, one can not understand the Eucharist if they do not encounter and understand who Jesus Christ is.
In my experience, which is small and limited, people come to know Jesus by other people who witness to the love and character of God. This is what evangelicals do well. Telling people they are poorly catechized is not going to bring them to this understanding. Besides, people in the 40’s and 50’s were not well catechized. Sure they went to Mass and did all the rules but their understanding of God was often rigid and fearful. At least in my family, I don’t claim to speak for everyone. But I will say that the faith formation of generations before me was lacking. Faith is a grace. Individual spiritual journeys vary greatly.
If we want to truly engage the non Catholics we need to be transformed by the Eucharist. If we engage them by telling them “their understanding is impoverished” I don’t think we are going to make progress. Besides, the Catholic Church has an impoverished understanding in many areas itself. Recognizing this, the Pope sent 30 European Bishops to visit Rick Warren’s Saddleback Church. Noted in this interview between Rick Warren and Raymond Arroyo. The talk about the visit is at 19:38.
youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=dVCY8pW-ACs
The work of Church of the Nativity in Timonium Maryland is brilliant as documented in the book, “Rebuilt”. (I am not an orthodox Catholic. The parish is.)
Catholics are impoverished in music. Terribly so. As for performance, when I go to the cathedral I witness a very well scripted performance. The liturgy has become a God. The choir, I suppose, is beautiful but they are performing to and not many can sing with their grandness. I want to worship God in many ways when I go to church, song being one of them. I should not be ridiculed for this.
As for the other questions about the concerns I wrote, I am not interested in a discussion about it. Based on previous experience it does not bear fruit. This thread is about reasons why people are drawn to the protestant faith and my intent was to answer the question. Not have to spend time explaining my answers. Again, 80% of our youth leave the church by 30. The next generation is not going to be there. There is a group in the church that puts a choke hold on the faith and keeps engaging in the same way. Something has to change. Stop and listen and pray and most of all spread the gospel by letting God transform you.