What are some of the main reasons that people are attracted to the Protestant faith?

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I could but why? So you can just nit pick more? Articulating Catholic teaching would take volumes. Far more than a paragraph. But just this time I’ll just take the time to do it in a very short paragraph. Note however I am not going to continue to play this game with you. A 1 sentence paragraph:

ABC is an attempt to stop procreation during an act of love.
:rolleyes: The above illustrates another reason why some people may be attracted to Protestants. Good day to you PRMerger. If you are an American enjoy the fireworks.
 
Done? You haven’t even started. One sentence does not comprise a paragraph.
Exhibit # whatever on how some I think just like to argue here over even the most minute things maybe just for the sake of arguing?

I not only started I finished.

Just FYI I provide this.

"A paragraph is defined as a group of sentences or a single sentence that forms a unit. Length and appearance do not determine whether a section in a paper is a paragraph. For instance, in some styles of writing, particularly journalistic styles, a paragraph can be just one sentence long. "

writingcenter.unc.edu/handouts/paragraphs/
 
Exhibit # whatever on how some I think just like to argue on the internet over even the most minute things maybe just for the sake of arguing?

I not only started I finished.

Just FYI I provide this.

"A paragraph is defined as a group of sentences or a single sentence that forms a unit. Length and appearance do not determine whether a section in a paper is a paragraph. For instance, in some styles of writing, particularly journalistic styles, a paragraph can be just one sentence long. "

writingcenter.unc.edu/handouts/paragraphs/
Look, Sy.

If that one sentence constitutes your understanding of what the Church teaches, then it’s no wonder you disagree with it.

If you understand it better, I don’t know why it’s taken me over 4 times to challenge you to offer your understanding.

Why can’t you write one paragraph? Why has it been like pulling teeth to get you to articulate the Church’s teaching?

I have challenged you over and over and over again.

It would take you 2 minutes to write a thoughtful response.

Investigate why the Church professes this!

It’s not as if she just wants, as I have heard some uncatechized ex-Catholics astonishingly argue, there to be lots and lots of baby Catholics around.

One would think that you would know that the Church’s rejection of birth control is a little more sublime than that.

But if you don’t know what she teaches, and why she teaches it, and where it comes from, then it’s no wonder you reject it.
 
Exhibit # whatever on how some I think just like to argue here over even the most minute things maybe just for the sake of arguing?

I not only started I finished.

Just FYI I provide this.

"A paragraph is defined as a group of sentences or a single sentence that forms a unit. Length and appearance do not determine whether a section in a paper is a paragraph. For instance, in some styles of writing, particularly journalistic styles, a paragraph can be just one sentence long. "

writingcenter.unc.edu/handouts/paragraphs/
I think a parallel is in order here.

Let’s say I keep bragging about how I can do the splits. And I keep bristling when someone says, “No, you really can’t do the splits.”

So someone says, “Let me see!”

And I ignore.

And she says, “Let me see, please!”

And then I say, “I’m leaving this discussion since you clearly don’t believe me”.

And then later I come back and say, again, “I can do the splits!”

And someone says, “I’d love to see that!”

And I ignore.

And then I get mad when someone says, “There are people here who keep claiming they can do the splits but won’t actually show us that they can.”

And so someone says, “Show us your splits!”

And then I say, “It’s because people don’t believe me that I’m not going to show you.”

And someone says, “Please show us your splits!”

And then I do this:

http://www.wholeliving.com/sites/fi...body_and_soul/2008_wl/bd_1207_touchtoes_l.jpg

And then someone says, “Ummm…that’s not quite it.”

Do you think the “someone” is wrong?
 
For me personally, the Eucharist is the Source and Summit of my faith. However, one can not understand the Eucharist if they do not encounter and understand who Jesus Christ is.

In my experience, which is small and limited, people come to know Jesus by other people who witness to the love and character of God. This is what evangelicals do well. Telling people they are poorly catechized is not going to bring them to this understanding. Besides, people in the 40’s and 50’s were not well catechized. Sure they went to Mass and did all the rules but their understanding of God was often rigid and fearful. At least in my family, I don’t claim to speak for everyone. But I will say that the faith formation of generations before me was lacking. Faith is a grace. Individual spiritual journeys vary greatly.

If we want to truly engage the non Catholics we need to be transformed by the Eucharist. If we engage them by telling them “their understanding is impoverished” I don’t think we are going to make progress. Besides, the Catholic Church has an impoverished understanding in many areas itself. Recognizing this, the Pope sent 30 European Bishops to visit Rick Warren’s Saddleback Church. Noted in this interview between Rick Warren and Raymond Arroyo. The talk about the visit is at 19:38.

youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=dVCY8pW-ACs

The work of Church of the Nativity in Timonium Maryland is brilliant as documented in the book, “Rebuilt”. (I am not an orthodox Catholic. The parish is.)

Catholics are impoverished in music. Terribly so. As for performance, when I go to the cathedral I witness a very well scripted performance. The liturgy has become a God. The choir, I suppose, is beautiful but they are performing to and not many can sing with their grandness. I want to worship God in many ways when I go to church, song being one of them. I should not be ridiculed for this.

As for the other questions about the concerns I wrote, I am not interested in a discussion about it. Based on previous experience it does not bear fruit. This thread is about reasons why people are drawn to the protestant faith and my intent was to answer the question. Not have to spend time explaining my answers. Again, 80% of our youth leave the church by 30. The next generation is not going to be there. There is a group in the church that puts a choke hold on the faith and keeps engaging in the same way. Something has to change. Stop and listen and pray and most of all spread the gospel by letting God transform you.
 
I want to worship God in many ways when I go to church, song being one of them. I should not be ridiculed for this.
Firstly, no one is ridiculing you for wanting to worship God in many ways.

You are not alone in wanting to worship God in many ways, and you are not the only Catholic who is moved by music.

However, to worship God in the Divine Liturgy is the pinnacle of worship. It is as head and shoulders above any other form of inspiring worship as the Bible is head and shoulders over any other inspiring piece of literature. Or as the Eucharist is head and shoulders over a really yummy piece of bread.

So, to hear a Catholic say he is going to a Protestant church down the street because of the really neat music is as disappointing as hearing a Catholic say that he is going to the Protestant church down the street because their bread is really, really fluffy and tasty.
 
This will be the last time I will respond to you. You are quick to make assumptions and you don’t listen well. I don’t have the patience for that. I said I attended 2 churches every weekend when I was in college. Here I am as an adult back on the same path. One because I need the Eucharist and the other because I want to worship God in song and have community. Please listen and pray before you continue with your agenda. Really take the time to hear people. If you want to lead them to Jesus you need to listen to them. Not let them know how right you are.
 
This will be the last time I will respond to you. You are quick to make assumptions and you don’t listen well. I don’t have the patience for that. I said I attended 2 churches every weekend when I was in college. Here I am as an adult back on the same path. One because I need the Eucharist and the other because I want to worship God in song and have community. Please listen and pray before you continue with your agenda. Really take the time to hear people. If you want to lead them to Jesus you need to listen to them. Not let them know how right you are.
It really sounds like you are trying to let me know how right you are.

I don’t understand why people reserve the right for themselves what they object to in others.
 
This will be the last time I will respond to you. You are quick to make assumptions and you don’t listen well. I don’t have the patience for that. I said I attended 2 churches every weekend when I was in college. Here I am as an adult back on the same path. One because I need the Eucharist and the other because I want to worship God in song and have community. Please listen and pray before you continue with your agenda. Really take the time to hear people. If you want to lead them to Jesus you need to listen to them. Not let them know how right you are.
Incidentally, I have never addressed your desire to go to 2 different churches.

My post were not directed at your personal practices.

I was simply making general comments about Catholics who don’t go to Mass because the Protestant church down the street has really neat music.

However, if you are permitting your children to go to the Protestant church down the street RATHER THAN the Divine Liturgy, that is indeed disappointing. And it is a personal practice of yours to which I would object.
I am late to reply to this but it is such an important question. I have not read all the responses but I am hoping this is a thread where people can reply honestly without being chastised, admonished, belittled, have their character judged or called any names.

Main reasons people leave:

They did not discover their relationship with Jesus Christ in the Catholic Church. They found it elsewhere in a community that fostered that faith. One that they could serve and grow in. The fact the the music is deplorable in most parishes adds to that. People wants to sing and worship God when they go to church. (My kids sometimes ask to go the church where people have joy and talk to each other rather than the Catholic church)

I was raised Catholic but had a profound conversion experience through an evangelical group at college. I continued to attend Mass and an evangelical church when I was in college. Mass for the Eucharist. The evangelical church for everything else. For 20 years I belonged to a very faithful parish and participated in programs that studied the catechism in its entirety. Conferences with speaker like the Hahn’s were common and well attended. Humanae Vitae was preached often. I read Karl Keating’s “Catholicism and fundamentalism” a million times. I just wanted to reference that because I have been taught everything. However, I could not accept certain doctrine or dogmas of the church including: celibate male only priesthood (allowing women and married individuals to be ordained is vital), the church’s legalistic stance on birth control (I’ve seen too many marriages damaged by it), infallibility (I just do not accept that any institution or individual is infallible)

I remain Catholic but do not believe in obedience to the Magisterium at all costs. I don’t accept many doctrines. Unity in the Body of Christ does not come in my opinion through doctrinal agreement. Even though the church claims to be the one true church: I see little unity in it. There is a small remnant of the church that considers itself to be the only obedient faithful ones telling everyone else they are not Catholic. I see a lot of self righteousness.

I will remain Catholic for now. I am not sure if I can stay Catholic and remain in good conscience. Currently 80% of our youth are leaving before the age of 30. We need to listen and understand why and it needs to go beyond “they are sinners and don’t want to live a moral life” No. I believe the church is failing to engage people in the faith in a relevant way.

I don’t answer this because I want to engage in a theological discussion in doctrine/dogma. I just want to give you some (name removed by moderator)ut as to why people leave. I hope it was helpful for you.
 
For me personally, the Eucharist is the Source and Summit of my faith. However, one can not understand the Eucharist if they do not encounter and understand who Jesus Christ is.

In my experience, which is small and limited, people come to know Jesus by other people who witness to the love and character of God. This is what evangelicals do well. Telling people they are poorly catechized is not going to bring them to this understanding. Besides, people in the 40’s and 50’s were not well catechized. Sure they went to Mass and did all the rules but their understanding of God was often rigid and fearful. At least in my family, I don’t claim to speak for everyone. But I will say that the faith formation of generations before me was lacking. Faith is a grace. Individual spiritual journeys vary greatly.

If we want to truly engage the non Catholics we need to be transformed by the Eucharist. If we engage them by telling them “their understanding is impoverished” I don’t think we are going to make progress. Besides, the Catholic Church has an impoverished understanding in many areas itself. Recognizing this, the Pope sent 30 European Bishops to visit Rick Warren’s Saddleback Church. Noted in this interview between Rick Warren and Raymond Arroyo. The talk about the visit is at 19:38.

youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=dVCY8pW-ACs

The work of Church of the Nativity in Timonium Maryland is brilliant as documented in the book, “Rebuilt”. (I am not an orthodox Catholic. The parish is.)

Catholics are impoverished in music. Terribly so. As for performance, when I go to the cathedral I witness a very well scripted performance. The liturgy has become a God. The choir, I suppose, is beautiful but they are performing to and not many can sing with their grandness. I want to worship God in many ways when I go to church, song being one of them. I should not be ridiculed for this.

As for the other questions about the concerns I wrote, I am not interested in a discussion about it. Based on previous experience it does not bear fruit. This thread is about reasons why people are drawn to the protestant faith and my intent was to answer the question. Not have to spend time explaining my answers. Again, 80% of our youth leave the church by 30. The next generation is not going to be there. There is a group in the church that puts a choke hold on the faith and keeps engaging in the same way. Something has to change. Stop and listen and pray and most of all spread the gospel by letting God transform you.
Sailor, thank you for this serious attempt to bring the thread back to topic and I apologize for any part I may have had in it going off.
 
Maybe and for your children. And I don’t have kids but I know that’s not the case for most of the youth in my extended family.
Our tiny confessional Lutheran school is crawling with tiny Catholic children because of this. It’s pretty commonly understood that if you are Catholic and want your children to lose their faith, you send them to a Catholic school to be educated.
 
Our tiny confessional Lutheran school is crawling with tiny Catholic children because of this. It’s pretty commonly understood that if you are Catholic and want your children to lose their faith, you send them to a Catholic school to be educated.
Egg-zactly!!! 👍

People aren’t being catechized. :sad_yes:

That’s why they leave.
 
This will be the last time I will respond to you. You are quick to make assumptions and you don’t listen well. I don’t have the patience for that. I said I attended 2 churches every weekend when I was in college. Here I am as an adult back on the same path. One because I need the Eucharist and the other because I want to worship God in song and have community. Please listen and pray before you continue with your agenda. Really take the time to hear people. If you want to lead them to Jesus you need to listen to them. Not let them know how right you are.
This bares repeating!

Don’t give up my friend. Maybe a referral to the mods
 
Egg-zactly!!! 👍

People aren’t being catechized. :sad_yes:

That’s why they leave.
I was definitely poorly catechized. All my catechesis was on my own, reading books and tracts and stuff, most of here stuff put out by CA. My RCIA experience was pretty horrendous. After RCIA I wondered why anyone would join up, I did it anyway.
 
I was definitely poorly catechized.
It is heartening to read this. Although sad as well.
All my catechesis was on my own, reading books and tracts and stuff, most of here stuff put out by CA. My RCIA experience was pretty horrendous. After RCIA I wondered why anyone would join up, I did it anyway.
'zactly. It often is horrendous.

People want to be fed the Truth. They are hungry for the Truth, and if they aren’t being fed in the CC they will go elsewhere.

Thankfully, because of Catholic Answers and other apolgetics works, this is changing.

Especially with our youth.
 
This will be the last time I will respond to you. You are quick to make assumptions and you don’t listen well. I don’t have the patience for that. I said I attended 2 churches every weekend when I was in college. Here I am as an adult back on the same path. One because I need the Eucharist and the other because I want to worship God in song and have community. Please listen and pray before you continue with your agenda. Really take the time to hear people. If you want to lead them to Jesus you need to listen to them. Not let them know how right you are.
I concur. I believe such an agenda of simply telling Protestants and others over and over and over again how right oneself is, and just over and over posting pictures of people shaking their heads no to anything else, telling others their understanding of God is severely impoverished, can get old and actually result in the opposite of what the goal is. Assuming the goal is to bring them into the RCC. What’s the saying? You can attract more flies with honey than with vinegar? Or something to that effect. Anyways I thank you again Sailor for your serious and kind responses to the thread question.
 
Catholics are impoverished in music. Terribly so. As for performance, when I go to the cathedral I witness a very well scripted performance. The liturgy has become a God. The choir, I suppose, is beautiful but they are performing to and not many can sing with their grandness. I want to worship God in many ways when I go to church, song being one of them. I should not be ridiculed for this.
Sailor, I think you are quite correct in why many leave the Catholic Church. I am a music minister at my parish and so take the liturgy very seriously. I believe that it was St. Pope John Paul, II that said “Good liturgy builds faith… poor liturgy destroys faith…” (paraphrasing).

I got involved in the music ministry 24 years ago and we do everything from very contemporary music to Gregorian chant. I love both. I am in the process of moving to another state (unfortunately - I love Colorado). After spending a month there I have tried out three different parishes and have been completely disappointed in the music. We even tried the Newman Center at a large university hoping for something more than a little old lady at the piano. The Newman center was the worst of all. It was a little old lady at the piano who couldn’t carry a tune in a bucket (God bless her soul.)

The bottom line, however, is that it never occurred to me to go to a non-Catholic faith community. While poor music and even a poor homily are not a lot of help in building our faith, the fact that we have the Eucharist trumps everything. There simply is no non-Catholic faith community (EO excluded) that can even come close to the Mass and I don’t care how dynamic the preacher or how fantastic the music. There is no worship that compares to the Mass.

And please, do not judge the hearts of those music ministers that you judge as “performing”. I have been accused of this as well. What the congregation does not see is that our music group, before each and every Mass (I do three a weekend) specifically prays that God will empty us of ourselves so that we might truly be His instruments.

God bless.
 
I concur. I believe such an agenda of simply telling Protestants and others over and over and over again how right oneself is, and just over and over posting pictures of people shaking their heads no to anything else, telling others their understanding of God is severely impoverished, can get old and actually result in the opposite of what the goal is.
Excuse me, but are you not telling us over and over again how right you are? If you would have simply answered PR’s question to begin with you would not be having this discussion. You claimed that you have been properly catechized but when challenged you fail to prove the point. Which is the whole point. People who leave the Catholic Church have not been fully catechized. You have given no evidence to refute that position. In fact, your answers only reinforce that position.
 
I concur. I believe such an agenda of simply telling Protestants and others over and over and over again how right oneself is, and just over and over posting pictures of people shaking their heads no to anything else, telling others their understanding of God is severely impoverished, can get old and actually result in the opposite of what the goal is. Assuming the goal is to bring them into the RCC. What’s the saying? You can attract more flies with honey than with vinegar? Or something to that effect. Anyways I thank you again Sailor for your serious and kind responses to the thread question.
I think it is quite clear, as echoed by HH, as well as so many others here, that what I have been saying, over and over again, is a sad fact.

The Church did not do a good job providing nourishing catechesis. Catholics who leave the Church are not well catechized.

I am repeating it over and over and over again because you keep rejecting this truth. You keep responding to my posts. 🤷

And I don’t see how it’s wrong to profess that I believe I am right.

It would seem that you, too, have a habit of professing things that you believe are right, yes?

Or are you simply making posts here that you believe are wrong?

:confused:

To wit: I presume you believe that you are proposing “how right oneself is” in these posts?
If I took everything in Scripture literally, I think I’d be concerned with all Christians. Those who believe He founded His Church upon Peter’s confession of Jesus being the Savior the Son of God and who believe the Church is His entire body of Christian believers. Including those Protestants who might even believe the Catholic Church strayed and His Church was in need of reformation. And also those who believe He found His Church upon Peter and who believe the Catholic Church is and remains the one and only true Church. I only say this because He also said “few” will enter into the eternal kingdom. And “few” is such a small number, not very many at all. So I’d be concerned with all as they strive to work out their salvation. Just a thought. 🙂
Sy_Noe said:
They work all the time in the real world. But it’s probably a plus if both spouses show some degree of open mindedness and be respectful towards the other and the Catholic must be humble enough not to think their religion is the superior faith or even if they believe theirs has all the right answers and is Christ’s one and only true church, not to throw it up in the non Catholic’s face all too often.
Sy_Noe said:
Exactly. Besides, women remaining silent and being submissive to men were customs of the times. Christ needs far more than 12 apostles today and in some Christian churches/ecclessial communities whatever you wish to call them, they just so happen to be women. I personally know of 2 women who were Catholics but felt so strongly the call that one now pastors a UCC church and the other is a priest in TEC.
Or are we to presume that in what you posted above you believe you are wrong?
 
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