Well Brother JR, I feel better about the altar but I still question praying together. As Catholics we are told not to do so as that would give the impression we agree. How do you reconcile the views of the Church during the 1900s which forbade participating in prayer with other groups with the way the Church now does things, which seems that it is ok. We always see the Pope visiting the Synagogues and now holding Assisi for all people to pray at…in their “camps” but still nonetheless praying together. I see a difference that’s all and I question why the change as there is one no doubt there has been a change.
The rule about not praying with non-Catholics was actually very misunderstood by Catholics and non Catholics, especially the laity. The clergy and male religious have done it for centuries. Franciscans have been praying with Jews and Muslims since the founding of the Custody of the Holy Land by St. Francis in the 13th century.
The Church was always vere skittish about Catholics attending non-Catholic services and rightly so. There were two problems.
- There was a great deal of animosity between Catholics and non-Catholics. The only ones who talked to each othe in a civil manner were the clergy and rabbis. Somehow they always managed to become good friends. But the laity in both camps were brutal toward each other.
- The Church wanted to protect the less educated Catholic from being converted. This is still in place today. That’s why the Church has rules about Catholics not receiving communion at any service other than a Catholic mass. We can do it at an Orthodox mass, if there is no Catholic mass available and with the permission of the Orthodox priest.
As hostilities began to die down, the world began to change. You no longer had Catholic ghettos, Protestant ghettos and Jewish ghettos. Suburbia came into existence. Public education expanded. Large secular universities were built., etc etc. People of all faiths live, study and work together. As a result, they become friends. They form bonds. They form communities and they do many good things in common.
There was also WW II. The men who would later become popes from John XX III to Benedict XVI were very involved in ecumenical work during WW II. They often found themselves leading Shabbat services for Jews on a Friday night, because they didn’t have a rabbi. These young priests went underground and led the Jewish people in worship.
As a result of their experience, they found that there is a common desire for the good in all men, regardless of our faith. This desire has to be promoted. Because it comes from God. Only God can inspire us to desire the good, even when we don’t quite know what it may be.
With the warming up of relationships between people of many faiths, because of new living and working conditions and the experience of the men who would later be popes, there came a realization that we had misinterpreted the intention of the Church. The Church did not want us to avoid praying with others.
The Church wanted to protect the innocent and less educated Catholic from being converted away from Catholicism. The Church still does want to do this. However, not praying with non-Catholics is not going to protect Catholics from being converted. The fact is that Catholics rub-shoulders with non-Catholics every day and as I described above, we work together, become friends and often children marry each other. Not praying with a non-Catholic is not going to shelter Catholics.
Finally, as I said, the hostility that existed at one time, is no longer there. There are small pockets of Catholics and non-Catholics who have hostile feelings for each other. But these are so small that they are not significant.
The idea of praying with each other is a very good one, because it’s a common search for what it good. When man finds something to search for, in common with other men, that can lead to closer bonds, greater trust, and greater trust often leads to people wanting to learn more about you. That’s when you can do the catechesis.
As the friars who have worked in Palestine since the 13th century. They have prayed with Jews and Muslims ever since. They never tried to convert them. Francis promised that his brothers would never do that. However, he never promised that his brothers would turn anyone away. Through the centuries, there has been a growth in friendship, leading to trust, leading to questions, leading to catechesis and leading to some conversions. I must add, that this is a very difficult part of the world to work in. The friars are caught between two factions that appear to have no love for each other (Jews and Muslims). However, as the friars alwasy write in their letters, the media does not report on the many neighborhoods, schools and other places where Jews and Muslims work together, live next door to each other, are friends and even take care of each other in times of need. This was initiated by the friars. Both sides trusted the friars. There is a product of shared prayer. It’s only a step, but an important one.
Does that help?
Fraternally,
Br. JR, OSF
