Every year I hear the same question(s). It does aggravate me. Lent is my own private spiritual journey. It is a contract between God and I. Not God, you and I. If individuals want to share this short time of meditation, reflection and/or sacrifice or penance-fine and do so. Just don’t ask me. It feels-for me-an invasion of my inner sanctum. If you are a teenager, a new convert or a person that really needs help…don’t ask me 'cause I probably won’t say.