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beckycmarie
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I am taking up wearing a mantilla to Mass.
This would of lasted only about 5 minutes on both things between my brother and I growing up.The kids are giving up fighting with each other, and will not be taking it out on children outside the family. They are also giving up mealtime gripes.
And here I thought I was having an original idea! I tend to use vulgar language when I am around male friends (Never in front of the ladies) and encourage them as well when they start in. So I asked them this week to help me keep my vow of pennance to our Lord by keeping the conversations clean at least through Lent, because I’m not sure I can do it alone. My request has been met with surprise, but at the same time respect. Wish me well!Well, as a prodgical Catholic, this is the first Lent since my teens that I’ve given up something. So I didn’t want to just give something up like TV or pop that I would pick up again with no guilt on the Monday after Easter. I wanted to give up something that would make me a better Christian. I was wondering what this would be when a few nights ago my mother pointed out a Bible passage about foul language. Isn’t it wonderful how God just bonks you over the head with the answer sometimes.?
I am giving up swearing. All profanities, and only the use of “Hell” and “damn” in their religious meanings. I’m also cutting out the “OMGs” and any use of God’s name that isn’t purposefully praise or petition or respectful conversation about Him. And the thing is…I’m not picking these things back up again.
I’m doing it because of a great quote by St. Francis I read here last week: “Preach the Gospel constantly; when necessary use words.” So I’ve been thinking, how can I SHOW my faith? And how can I be a positive influence to others by my faith?
I’m 25 years old, and a 25 year old that doesn’t swear is a rare thing and sure to stick out after awhile. But I want it to stick out because I’m following God’s rules, not society’s distortions of what I should be. It says right in the Bible that God wants me to keep a clean mouth beyound what I’ve done since my teenage years of “anything not blasphmey goes”. I can do better then that, with God strenghtening me.
Also, swearing is a thorn in my side for different reasons. I have Tourette’s Syndrome. When I say that, most of you will think of people who scream profanities, but in fact only about 30% of us suffer from coprohailia. I’ve had so many people ask me if I scream swear words over the years and I have to tell them I swear by choice. But do they believe that? I hate that sterotype SO much and I’ve come to conclusion it’s very hypocritical for me to turn around and feed the sterotype by making sailors blush with my language on purpose!
Anyone else giving up something they hope to drop for good, and not just for Lent?![]()
I thought about doing the same thing, but then it says in the Bible that you should wash your face and look normal when you are fasting so it would be a secret. I changed my mind. Maybe you could just fast your designer makeup or something. I’m going keep all of my fasts to myself. There is more reward in heaven that way.I am giving up wearing makeup. It will hopefully make me less vain and also save me a lot of money (I love the department store brands). Also I am hoping to pray the Liturgy of the Hours each day.
I plan to get to bed earlier so I don’t have the excuse of needing more sleep and I can do those things I should do in the mornings. This means no CAF late at night!I would no more ask this question to a person outside of cyberspace than I would ask his salary information, but I see no harm in doing so here due to our anonymity. I think this thread could be of assistance to those seeking ideas…such as myself.
Lent is almost here.
Related question: will you continue your chosen Lenten practice even during the Sundays of Lent and the Triduum?