Theoda: I am a De Montfort consecree of nearly 10 years now. I am a 58 year old cradle Catholic woman.
You have a misunderstanding here. Check your own catechism.
You say that Protestants ‘are not part of the Catholic Church.’
What does the Catechism say?
Who belongs to the Catholic Church?
836 “All men are called to this catholic unity of the People of God… And to it, in different ways, belong or are ordered: the Catholic faithful, others who believe in Christ, and finally all mankind, called by God’s grace to salvation.”
320 (
831)
837 “Fully incorporated into the society of the Church are those who, possessing the Spirit of Christ, accept all the means of salvation given to the Church together with her entire organization, and who—by the bonds constituted by the profession of faith, the sacraments, ecclesiastical government, and communion—are joined in the visible structure of the Church of Christ, who rules her through the Supreme Pontiff and the bishops. Even though incorporated into the Church, one who does not however persevere in charity is not saved. He remains indeed in the bosom of the Church, but ‘in body’ not ‘in heart.’”
321 (
771,
815,
882)
838 “The Church knows that she is joined in many ways to the baptized who are honored by the name of Christian, but do not profess the Catholic faith in its entirety or have not preserved unity or communion under the successor of Peter.”
322 Those “who believe in Christ and have been properly baptized are put in a certain, although imperfect, communion with the Catholic Church.”
323 With the Orthodox Churches, this communion is so profound “that it lacks little to attain the fullness that would permit a common celebration of the Lord’s Eucharist.”
324 (
818,
1271,
1399)
In other words, Theoda, all people (and especially those who are members of a Christian faith)
are in a CERTAIN THOUGH NOT PERFECT UNION with the Catholic Church.
Protestants who, as many have noted, do not ‘recognize’ the fullness of the Catholic faith, are still members of the Catholic Church (Catholic is universal) even if they do not realize it.
If they are saved, it will be
through the Church. Because, in the case of Protestants especially, they already
are in communion with the Catholic Church.
Where you seem to have trouble is that you are assuming, especially in your original statement, that somehow ‘all’ Protestants know that the Catholic Church is the One True Church but deliberately reject her. If there were the case, they would indeed be in danger of hell if they did not repent.
But a nonCatholic Christian who does not yet have full understanding that the Catholic Church IS the true Church, and lives his or her life as a Protestant, is
NOT DELIBERATELY REJECTING THE CATHOLIC FAITH (since he does not truly know it) and will, if saved, be saved through the Catholic Church, despite having lived life as a Protestant. . .or a Jew, Muslim, Buddhist, pagan, or even atheist!!