Obesity is a HUGE issue among the US poor - in many states over 30% are obese - while the rich are actually the thinnest.
money.msn.com/family-money/does-being-poor-make-you-fat.aspx
How lucky for the rich, then, that they can afford good, healthy food and access to what they need to keep a sound, calm state of mind and being.
My statement implies nothing - it clear states what I intend to say.
I’ve never lived on government assistance because I’ve always worked - even when I was “too young” to work. I actually work with foster children (currently have 2 - have had 13 others in the past) and I am an educational advocate for disadvanteged children so I see lots of people that live on the dole that refuse to work - or bother to care for their children. Its hard for me to take a step back from the issue when I am wading through it every day.
I, too, have always worked. Yet, my family is far below the poverty line, and I can safely say that it is through no fault of our own. I have carried the entirety of my family’s well-being since I was around 15 or 16, as soon as I could legally work. It has not been enough. It has never been enough ,even with college, even with “pulling myself up by my bootstraps”. Extreme poverty is a black hole that takes everything you throw at it. I was the first of all my siblings to have a college degree. It has not been enough, through no fault of our own.
I am glad that you are a stout, good, solid-hearted, hard-working individual. I am also glad that luck, sheer, blessed luck, coincided with your state in life to make you able to live free of government assistance.
I have watched my sister slowly suffer to the point that her back will never be okay again, due to state healthcare. I have watched the free meds given to her by uncaring doctors drive her insane to the point that four police officers and two EMTs had to drag her out of the cat’s litter box where she was babbling prayers to God (a crisis that is fortunately now past). I have watched my mother dwindled to a 90-pound skeleton, thanks to the benefits of the government.
You are good. You are strong. And you are lucky.