I had never thought of the Baptist churches as being particularly anti-Catholic until my fiance of three years suddenly dumped me. He gave as his reason a statement by his minister to him, that he and his church would do everything they could to talk him out of marrying me because I am a Catholic. Why the minister waited three years to tell him this, I do not know for sure…
But my erstwhile fiance also told me at that time that God had appeared to him in a dream and told him that he was to remain single for a long time… meanwhile, before he had even had the nerve to tell me it was over between us, he had already tried to ask out several of our co-workers – something I found out when they indignantly told me how they had blistered his ears in reply!
So, to be fair, I can’t tell exactly how much of it may have been genuine anti-Catholicism on the part of his church, and how much of it he may simply have seized upon as a convenient excuse to behave like a scumbag. Having known several people who hate the entire Catholic Church with a purple passion because one Catholic once acted reprehensibly toward them, I hesitate to lump all Baptists together under one blanket because one Southern Baptist made a jerk of himself.
I am, however, very happy to report that I am now engaged to a dear sweet cradle Catholic who was away from the Church for many years, but is now making a comeback to prayer and the sacraments through our relationship. God is good and He works in very mysterious ways!
(Not to mention that the three-year debacle has spurred me into donating a larger part of my income to organizations devoted to debunking the anti-Catholic mythology that is so pervasive in this culture!)