You operate on the premise that pretty much everyone outside of the Catholic Church is saved.
Not at all. I am saying that what is reserved to God to judge, to decide whether this or that person should have eternal life in heaven, we should leave to Him. To say very much more does not seem particularly helpful one way or another. To be very practical, it is not as if you can put percentages on how many non-Catholics shall be saved by the Will of God, as opposed perhaps to those Catholics who die in a state of mortal sin…
The Church is the ordinary means directing one to salvation in Christ.
I agree. More than that, the church is the instituted way by which anyone can be saved. There is no salvation ex exclesiam. That is part of our revelation.
At the same time, I am saying we do an injustice to the good news that “God became man” to see this purely in terms (however implicitly) of avoiding damnation. I think the Christian message is more positive. Unlike protestants, we should not be preaching (the avoidance of) hell, but heaven. We look forward not to the avoidance of damnation but to share the Beatific Vision, to see God face to face. This is precisely what has impoverished protestantism (as opposed to Orthodoxy) most probably because of the loss of sacramental life.
Just in case you misunderstand me, I am not denying the existence of hell, or even the probability that it is well populated

However, hell should be seen primarily in terms of what it is not: i.e. it is the absence and rejection of God, it is the negation, if you like, of heaven. Not to start first from heaven also impoverishes our understanding of hell (as much as denying the possibility of hell makes a mockery of heaven).
At the end of the day, how often do we hear priests preaching about the joys of heaven, of how we should look forward to being in the presence of God? Perhaps we Catholics need to ask ourselves more often whether we are underselling the Christian message even to ourselves.
So, the Church and Sacraments are a nice thing…but not all that necessary.
No the Church and Sacraments are absolutely necessary. The Church is the only means of salvation, and the Sacraments are the efficacious signs of God’s gracious love.
But again, how much do we diminish the Blessed Sacrament, for example, if we see it solely in terms of what we need to do to avoid damnation. To receive the Body of Christ, to have God dwell within us, that is surely infinitely more precious than that. This is the full sense of salvation: not merely avoidance of damnation (which I stress again seems to be the implicit theme of this thread) but ultimately deification. “The Son of God became man, that we might become God.” In heaven, in the beatific vision, we shall share God’s living love in a state of ecstactic joy. “
…we know that when he appears we shall be like him, for we shall see him as he is”. This is anticipated in the sacraments.
When we meet our “separated brethren”, should we be thinking:
umm, don’t you know that you are only relying on an extraordinary mean of salvation whereas we have, like, the ordinary means of salvation… Ha ha ha.
Or do we understand that “
Poor friend. If only you knew how much you miss, the sacramental grace you forego, the preciousness of the Blessed Sacrament that we can adore, the healing grace and forgiveness of sins in the sacrament of Confession… etc.”
This should be what drives us to missionary work, to bring everyone to Christ in the Church.
Maybe you will say all this is only a matter of emphasis. It is likely that I am misunderstanding you.
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