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NFP can be used to reduce (or increase) the chance of pregnancy. So can complete abstinence reduce the chance. I am sure you agree it is permissible to decline an act which might lead to pregnancy, and in fact to decline it for that very reason. Or should we feel compelled? What NFP does not do is alter the procreative nature of any sexual act. The chance of pregnancy may be altered - up or down - by virtue of timing, not by altering the natural progress of the act. The “procreative nature” of the act is language for the “natural course” of the act, not for the "probability of pregnancy this month”.…couples who execute it perfectly have as high as a 99.5% change of NOT getting pregnant in a given year - roughly the same as with most other contraceptive methods.
For a good slice of the month, that is in fact how our bodies work! The Church says - work with that, but don’t corrupt the sexual act itself - let if function as God designed it. And that includes infertile periods. Where is it held that it is wrong to have sex in the knowledge that pregnancy is most unlikely? Nowhere. Not after menopause. Not between fertile periods.They want to enjoy sex without having kids! So they use NFP!
Word games and obfuscation. It’s OK to limit the chances of having children over time. Abstain permanently if you wish, or abstain periodically. But when having sex - at a time chosen to have low probability of conception - allow each sexual act to retain its natural procreative nature. A nature that is retained so long as the marital act is natural.And then you come along and type “NFP does nothing at all to the procreative nature of sexual acts.”
You’re joking, apparently. You have to be. If it didn’t have a clear effect on procreation, Catholics wouldn’t use it. We wouldn’t be talking about it.
Yes - natural sexual acts retain their “procreative” nature after menopause, during infertile times or fertile times. The pill robs the acts of that nature. A condom robs the act of that nature. Withdrawal robs the act of that nature. In no case is the fact of, or probability of, a conception at all relevant.Uhhhhhh…
They are not corrupted by virtue of their timing. Were that so, then we must cease sexual relations at menopause.It corrupts all of them due to its anti-procreative timing. … NFP is Anti- or non-procreative sex-timing.
You believe “procreative” is referring to the potential for conception. It. Is. Not. It’s referring to the form of the sexual act - is it allowed to proceed to its natural ends without interference.
For those feeling they do wrong by practicing NFP, they are fully entitled, and earn no opprobrium at all, if they instead choose to be fully abstinent until a time when they feel ready and able to conceive a child. Indeed for some people, this course of action is what their circumstances appear to require.
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