First, let me state that a parish lacking these details isn’t a “deal breaker.” My parish is my parish. In most cases, there a more important things. If I could have my personally perfect parish, the tabernacle would be center, an appropriate crucifix visible, I think I’m leaning towards a return to altar rails, and definitely no shying away from liturgical art. This doesn’t necessarily mean it has to be ornate carvings or stained glass or what have you. But I like eastern iconography, and I like the depictions of the heavens, saints, and appropriate Biblical imagery in the Church. The level of ornateness can vary depending upon the parish’s wealth, but I think liturgical art, scaled for the parish’s funds, can assist in lifting a person to a reverant state.
Also, I do like larger baptismal founts. Maybe not full immersion, per say, but one someone can step into and kneel in while the water is poured over them.