As a mother who has both a boy and a girl and who both served as alter servers last year, I have no problem with girls serving. My son pulled out, but his sister didn’t. She wants to be seen as a worthwhile member of the Church, and she was able to participate in some way for a short period. I think linking girls serving with female priest ideas is a bit of a stretch. And with the shortage of nuns, if allowing girls to be servers might actually encourage some girls to head towards this vocation, I am all for it.
You have a small group of dissenters that want female priests, but you also have groups of dissenters that want the Church to change it’s mind about Contraception, homosexuality, abortion etc. We’ve always had some dissenters pushing certain reforms.
I don’t buy the argument about the worry it will promote more people to push for female priests. What I do see is an opportunity for our daughters, if they choose, to have an opportunity to be more involved in our Church, and hopefully by feeling they are contributing and being involved, they will stick with the Faith in adult life and be encouraged to aim for vocations, whether single or married, within the Catholic Faith.
If our children are given the confidence now then they might make good leaders in Youth Ministry or other works for the Church later.
I want to encourage my daughter’s enthusiasm, not crush her interest and confidence and feelings of worthwhileness now. If by serving on the alter, that gives her encouragement in interest, drive, confidence and feeling a worthwhile member who can contribute at a young age now, then hopefully that will stand her in good stead to continue to feel the same later on so she can do good works for the Church in teenage and adult years.
I once asked a protestant colleague why there were so many youth at her Church and who were interested. She said they always had a practice of involving their children from avery early years to feel worthwhile contributers to their Church, given leadership roles and encouraged to be involved in their Church service.
If I worry that some girls might have this view about female priests, then I am doing my daughter an injustice, because there aren’t many opportunities for our children, let alone our daughters to be involved in our mass, to be involved in our Church, except when they are teenagers or do readings at a children’s or school mass. I am not waiting until my daughter is 15 and then say, you can do stuff with Youth Ministry now if you want, because her interest and feelings of worthwhileness might have gone by then.
In Australia, only 14% of Catholics attend regular mass. If female alter servers now might increase opportunity for leaders to be encouraged, that might increase this figure in the next generation, then I am all for it. Those leaders, whether they are girls or boys, will give the Church an increased opportunity in the next generation to lead more Faithful back into the Church, to breed more Faithful to stay and to lead more into vocations for the Church. In my mind, that overrides the worry that a few might think female priests are ok, and the bottom line is, we have the ability to explain to our daughters now why we only men become priests.
This is just my thoughts, and I know many won’t agree with them.