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Some of this, friend, is simply your age. I don’t mean to condescend, but I’m simply saying what you describe sounds like the typical teenage experience in some ways — good, healthy questioning. Take the advice you’ve received above (it’s good), and be patient with yourself; a few years and life experiences will help the pieces snap into place. Don’t give up!
 
It sounds like things will settle down once you get permanently situated. It’s hard when things are unsettled, but I guess it gives you a chance to practice patience.
 
I was talking with a friend earlier who used to be the vocations director for his religious order and asked if he had any suggestions for you. These are things that would come after RCIA. He suggested getting involved in your parish. He mentioned liturgical ministries like lector or EMHC where you could see the liturgy up close. Also things like religious education for children and service type ministries. Once you get to college get involved in the Catholic campus ministry there. Many dioceses and orders have discernment retreats that you might want to check out. And if you have the opportunity to take some philosophy classes in college that might also be beneficial.
 
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Well, I have at times. But my heart is stubborn and expects to hear the voice of God. I don’t know what his plan for me is and pray but I haven’t gotten a response. It is clear that God is real and that he founded the holy Catholic Church. However, sometimes my prayers feel in vain.
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Use a structured method to hear God speaking to you, such as Lectio Divina.

God expect that we first attune ourselves to what He has already said, then He will tell us more.
 
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I’m not Catholic yet, is it fine to think about my vocation? I sometimes wonder if I’m called to the priesthood, because I have a love of the sacraments, and desire to serve others, but I also am scared of choosing the wrong path, cause this stuff is serious. I’m know only 16 and I know I have plenty of time, but if I don’t have things sorted out I feel anxious and stressed.
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If you are called in this way, then God will provide clarity. You can’t “choose the wrong path” in that regard because the Church discerns with you, and if a calling is not confirmed you will not progress in the process.

Everyone has a “vocation”. For many of us, it begins by serving those most immediately close to us, such as family members, and perfecting love for those who are in need. Do some volunteer work, and look for the face of Christ in those who are the poor, marginalized, and rejected by society.
 
Prayer, reading Scripture, serving others, and spending time with people of faith.
 
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I also fear I might not be smart/social enough to be a priest. Though I’m getting better at socialization and public speaking.
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Luke12:11b-12
"…do not be anxious how or what you are to answer or what you are to say; for the Holy Spirit will teach you in that very hour what you ought to say.”
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I asked the great St Pio to intercede for me with the Lord when I needed help with strengthening my faith and St Pio definitely interceded for me. The Lord graciously granted this gift to me. Try asking St Pio. He will surely help you. He is a good and holy friend in heaven.
 
Keep it on the mind. Prayer, reading Scripture, serving others, and spending time with people of faith.
If you still feel like you are lacking faith, you can pray or meditate.
 
What helped me?

Education. Learn more about the faith. Challenge yourself more. Prayer is great. But reading and learning are what keep me interested enough to hang on. My parish sells various books in the narthex for a modest sum, usually $5.00. You could also visit your local Catholic bookstore. And consider audiobooks for the car. Finally, don’t forget to check out your parish’s adult education program or, if you’re a young adult, Theology on Tap.

Also, approach things with a new attitude. Come into the faith seeking insights, not Answers. The journey is long, complex, and full of mystery. Take it all in stride and in awe.
 
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To pray and believe again, of course.

Faith is both an act of the will and a work of grace. Nobody lacks grace if one prays for it, and thus it really falls on the believer to work on their faith.
 
Stop looking for faith. Let faith find you. If you don’t believe, pretend you do. Act as if you believe.

There are many many people, probably saints among them, who feel they lack faith, who fear they lack faith, and yet who never stop believing that they will eventually be faithful.

Don’t let a lack of faith keep you from living as if you don’t lack faith.

It’s a conscious decision.

Fake it ‘til you make it
 
Honestly, although I do understand what you are trying to say and I totally agree with you, I do not agree with the words, simply because faith is in the intellect and the will, not the passions. “Fake it ‘til you make it” just inverses everything about faith because to “feel” faith is not faith at all, but it is to know and consent to what the Faith says.

Nobody needs to “feel” faithful before they become faithful. Rather, it is the very act of believing that makes one “faithful”, no matter what one feels.
 
Ask God for the gift, the grace, of Faith. It’s important to be persistent and patient in what you ask for in prayer. (asking for the gift of faith or just more faith) Often particular graces come in time and possibly gradually but rarely can one pray for something and bam, there it is.

Lord I believe, help my unbelief.

-Mark 9:24
 
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I am inspired how st peter didn’t have faith in the storm and denied Christ three times, but ended up doing upside down on a cross because he isn’t worthy to die in the same manner as the Lord. Also inspired ascot how st Augustine spent much time searching, he followed many philosophies and religions but in the end he became Christian.
 
“God has created me to do Him some definite service. He has committed some work to me which He has not committed to another. I have my mission. I may never know it in this life, but I shall be told it in the next. I am a link in a chain, a bond of connection between persons.

He has not created me for naught. I shall do good; I shall do His work. I shall be an angel of peace, a preacher of truth in my own place, while not intending it if I do but keep His commandments.

Therefore, I will trust Him, whatever I am, I can never be thrown away. If I am in sickness, my sickness may serve Him, in perplexity, my perplexity may serve Him. If I am in sorrow, my sorrow may serve Him. He does nothing in vain. He knows what He is about. He may take away my friends. He may throw me among strangers. He may make me feel desolate, make my spirits sink, hide my future from me. Still, He knows what He is about.”

Blessed John Henry Newman
 
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