Thank you…to discover that…
Did you read the entirety of the exchange? It ended without any particular bitterness. However, my point had merit. The idea that children need society’s support to have a home foundation was what I addressed. I made no implication to the other person that they had claimed anything, only pointed out what I thought to be true. The fact that they read into my post what I did not say is not my problem.
Agreed. I find no fault in what he said.
Hmmm…that you’re a very charming girl, and I’m hopeful that the years will give you a less naive view of government intrusion. Have a nice day.
Surely; however, your reading of my previous conversation is self-serving. Also, it is rude and insulting to continue calling someone a girl when they’ve asked you not to. It is rude to presume upon my age, and if I do not respond to rudeness and condescension, that is not my problem. You have said things that have, at turns, been rude, insulting, off topic, and plain manipulative. I have also been accused of holding positions I do not; it is a fatal flaw of human communication. We don’t always understand each other perfectly. That both sides of both conversations misheard a couple times does not mean either side is stupid.
As for my so-called naivete, I am unlikely to get a differing view. Is it so unbelievable that people retain a willingness to provide for the unfortunate in their taxes as they age?
However, I cannot hold your attitude against you. I have seen it in most who hold your opinion, as many are unwilling to give due respect to the opinions of those they disagree with. To me, this is a shame and an obstacle to any real discourse, as people who disagree are marked as childish and people who agree merely pat each other on the back. That is not mature conversation; that is playground politics.
However, condescension is unappreciated and nonconstructive. So is the continued “girl” insult, paired with what I guess is meant to be a compliment. So is an unwillingness to acknowledge that I have yet to disagree with you on an important point.
What are you arguing about? What position of mine do you resent? There is nothing, except my aversion to an arbitrary sentence you seemed far too stuck on. Anyway, like I said, you are getting nowhere, especially if you’re into insults. I could list the ways I haven’t disagreed with any major point of yours, but the condescending attitude demonstrated again and again is just sickening and displays little knowledge of what my point was to begin with. “Vote by religion, but be careful. Consider others.” It’s not very radical at all.
I agreed broken families hurt society, and I agreed certain social rules were good. I disagreed they must lead to legislation. You then said you weren’t talking about legislation. That made all you’d said off topic in a thread about legislation. If this logic is flawed, there is no such thing as logic.
A good day to you, too. I am glad you seem to have given up on me; it gets tiresome to be talked down to post after post for no good reason. And, no, my lack of home ownership does not make me a child. I have a wonderful residence I share with a friend, and which I help pay for. The fact that we do not own it does not make us children in any way, and you acting that way only makes you seem like a playground bully.
The point is that without laissez-faire sexual behaviour, there would be no one to spend the money on - kids would live in intact families,
This is in no way guaranteed. There will still be abusive husbands, neglectful mothers, deserters, etc. The odds may improve, but that is all.
Also, I have not denied this fact. But, what can laws do? How is that relevant to the thread? We’re talking about laws and voting, not social facts.
and grow up to be productive citizens instead of criminals in need of jail
Many criminals come from intact families. This is no guarantee either; we only increase the odds.
And this can be totally prevented with legislation how? I don’t disagree with the point; I only doubt its relevance in this thread. We are meant to be talking about laws, not complaining about taxes while providing no legal solutions, which is what the person I was talking to did. Several posts blatantly deny that the subjects discussed should be related to laws at all. Do you have no problem with people flaunting the common rule that all threads must be related to the topic of the thread? Unless laws are suggested to curb this, all I have done is suggest that perhaps the matter is off topic and therefore unsuited to this thread.
I concede the point, but what can be done? That is the issue at hand, not whether the statement is true.
Also, for the record, I have not condoned laissez-faire sexual behavior in any way.
As for paying for police officers, etc., all that will not disappear with intact families. Many criminals come from unbroken homes. (Nobody has explicitly said that, but it seems there is a lot of optimism coming close to it in regards to fixing the family.) Acting as if ideal families will stop crime in gigantic ways is as silly as pretending broken families don’t cause crime. Both should be viewed in the greater context of the whole society, not on their own. Complaining is worthless without action.
It seems to me odd that a position as simple as “Try not to interfere for the ‘good of society’ too much; it might trample on rights” is seen as so radical. It’s simple and straightforward. It takes into account morals. It denies nothing. Must we be so focused on proving our own morals we have to create disagreements with others when only semantics is at stake? Really? Wow.