My mother was a child, and went along with what she was told, by disobedient priests and laypeople. .
Oh now its not women it is the priest and laypeople who were disobedient.
She was married in 1974, when she was 19 years old.
19 and married is not a child. If she stopped as a child than it must have been her parents that were being disobedient as well as her.
Weepixie also attested that women stopped covering their heads long before 1976
Long is a relative term. I know that late 60’s women still wore hats. I can remember the one I bought for Easter of 1969. Do you have any real proof that priest an laity said Don’t wear hats? I never heard it said. I doubt if it was. Custom changed and it just happened.
And again, if it WAS that late in some places, that is STILL earlier than 1983, when the Canon changed.
So? We are back to that your parents and their parents were disobedient.
It seems to me you are refusing to accept that ANYONE was disobedient about this issue, ever.
I don’t beleive the Church was requiring it despite it still being a canon that was outdated that is why it was revised.
Oh, and I am not nitpicking words. That would be YOU, about my using the word “veil” instead “headcovering.”
Why are you so bothered? I find it odd that those who promote the “veil” as if it was a veil that was required. In those days, veils referred to the religious women.
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Desirable" is not “it is required.” If I said to you, “It is desirable that you wear a dress to Church” would you think I was saying you are required to?
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Same thing with this. Canon Law never mandated women and men sit apart- whereas it DID require women to cover their heads.
Are you a canon lawyer? I doubt it. It would make the Canon meaningless if it weren’t required. No it was requirement of both.
The definition of the word desirable: worth having or seeking or achieving
The definition of the word must: a necessary or essential thing
These words are not synonyms. Try again.
Your problem is with the Webster dictionary. They don’t have to be synonyms where did you get that idea? Even so the meanings are related. Why do:shrug: you say they are not? Stubbernous! That is the definition sorry if it doesn’t agree with what you THOUGHT it meant. Often words are used by people differently than their actual meanings.
Oh, and I’ve seen a few women at the TLM who wear hats or scarves. But women who veil wouldn’t stand out if other women did the same. Just sayin’.
Saying what?
I will never understand why other women get so insulted by a woman who covers her head. No woman here who advocates covering her head at Church has said she is more holy or devoted than one who doesn’t.
I would have agree with you at one time but after reading your comments no way. The insult isn’t from women who wear something on their head.No it is "they were disobedient "and the insistence of veil as opposed to cover your head just look at your above statement of Just sayin’. That statement says that women should wear veils not a hat or a scarf than the veil wouldn’t stand out.
But it does make me suspicious when someone is not only defending the practice of not covering her head NOW, but not doing it when it was INDISPUTABLY in direct disobedience to Canon 1262 of the 1917 Code.
It makes me suspicious of a someone condeming people as if their word was law. Not it is not INDISPUTABLE It makes me suspious as to why they would bring up things that should no longer matter. It is like bringing up girl alter servers, communion in the hand that were done before permission was given. It has no bearing on today.
And I also get REALLY sick of people saying that women covering their heads was just because of the fashions of the time. That is NOT why St. Paul told the women to cover their heads when praying. It was about submission. And frankly, it still is, which is why it is such a controversial topic. The responses of some here show that
The Sacred Doctrine of Faith Doesn’t agree with you
it must be noted that these ordinances, probably inspired by the customs of the period, concern scarcely more than disciplinary practices of minor importance, such as the obligation imposed upon women to wear a veil on the head (1 Cor 11:2-6); such requirements no longer have a normative value.
Called them the custom of the day.
The quesiton was what happened to the head covering? The answer society no longer regards it as anything meaningful. If there are women who do, that is terrific but why do some feel that they need to call those who don’t and stopped with the blessing of the Church disobedient. It was a custom that fell out of use period. Those who would like to revive it should look at this thread and see that some promotion hurts that goal. To try to say that God requires it, that it still is a requirement is not going to encourage others. To try to say that it women were disobedient or priest or laity also hurts that goal.