What has changed in the world since your childhood?

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What memories from childhood would now seem strange to the next generation.
What activities or gadgets, games, customs or expectations are different now?
Frankly, I’m old though I can’t see myself as old and my hair is stubbornly brown, and folk usually are fooled, but no, I’m seventy…there was the Latin Mass, and singing Latin hymns in the choir. In early childhood, my siblings and I piously played the Fatima events, and with complete innocence and with childlike reverence, even the Mass, as religion taught by the nuns was even a natural part of the occupations of our childhood vacations.
We lived in a small city, surrounded by orchards, went fishing in the ‘creek’ which is actually a river, and was where we’re all learned to swim.

We walked over country roads to gather blackberries and mushrooms.
We made daisy chains from black-eyed yellow wild daisies on the way to school, and wore hooded thick raincoats that served as sails to speed our way down the hilll, and erosion gullies en route, lined with gleaming quartz stone were magical.
We said daily Rosary … in winter before the fireplace.
We played imaginative games outside throughout vacations,
And we read books, and occasionally played cards, and had family sing-songs around the piano, and sang rounders whilst during the dishes or going for Sunday drives though the countryside.

There wasn’t an electronic item, no television, until one day aereals began to appear above houses, and transistor radios, and women wearing slacks, and shorter skirts. The nuns were very strict about modesty.

The bread was delivered each day, and the sound of horse and cart signified that the milk was being delivered in glass bottles with shiny aluminium tops that we smoothed over lemon squeezers to make Christmas bells…
 
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Our telephone number was three digits long, and the phone connected us to an exchange with live operators, one of whom was a relative of ours.
TV was black and white.
No such thing as a cell phone.
 
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Very nice thread Trishie!
People are confused with my age too, as blond and grey mix nicely and my youngest was born later in life.

So with that…

Stores were all closed on Sunday.

I had typing and Pittman stenography in school and had an electric typewriter.

We had a movie camera with big lights for taking home movies. Of course they had no sound.

We learned prayers with cursive writing. The sisters wore long black habits.

Cars had bench seats in the front, and we never used seat belts snd they were only lap belts.

Movie theaters had one movie playing at a time, and there were drive in movies.

The church bells rang for the Angelus, and it was a real bell.

We had a dial on the wall phone in the kitchen, and then it got a touch tone.

Yes had a few channels and there was ano antennae on the roof. The TV repair guy would come and replace picture tubes.

My older sister had a portable bonnet hairdryer.

Refrigerator needed to be defrosted.

Coffee was either percolated or instant.

People wore uniforms, Candy Stripers, nurses, hairdressers, dentists and even the men who worked at the gas station.

I can go on and on and on…☺️
 
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My parents took me everywhere with them. If they couldn’t take me, they didn’t go.
We visited relatives every Sunday.
Rock concerts were affordable and fun.
We had sisters in the schools.
People only had ONE car.
Moms were home.
Everyone’s house was paid off.
 
Oh you guys (and we never said ‘guys’ relating to both male and female,)
all you share is familiar.
Katie you sound gorgeous!
We had an ice-chest instead of a fridge for several years. The iceman would drive up the street weekly with a big lump of ice, and the kids would run out for ice-chips to suck in summer.

Clare, we would visit drive the distance to see the the great aunts, all single because their sweethearts were killed in WW1. We were were required to recite poems and sing, and me to play the violin.
There was always a jar of meringues for us.
And they’d have saved up all their halfpennies, pennies, threepences and sixpences and have penny scrambles. (we’ve had decimal currency since 1966) Afterwards one great-aunt would whisperingly check how much each child retrieved (nine of us) and secretly even out the amounts. And we always went away with doilies and little porcelain dolls etc, because one aunt had so many trinkets in the family ancestral homestead (if you can call the 1840’s ‘ancestral’) that she couldn’t sleep in her room, but slept on a daybed in the kitchen.
Other family…I have around 40 first cousins. If any stayed over we’d sleep ‘top-to-toe’.

It was a good time. The war was over and it was a more hopeful, more trustful time…except that the nuns did persist in pointing to the maps to show how far Communism had spread and our minds shivered with potential danger, that was actually faraway, unlike so many present potential dangers.
 
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The streets where I grew up were safer, or so we thought, and full of kids out playing until the street lights came on. The house my parents bought for $15,000.00 is now worth around a million dollars. Very few of the new neighbors there have kids now, and we usually only see them going in and out of the car before or after being shuttled for organized sports or play dates. We still had religious sisters teaching at our parish school too. By the time my son went there, the sisters had all left.
 
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The streets in our home town were mostly dirt roads until maybe halfway through my childhood. We never did get street lights.
I could walk from one end of town to the other in under fifteen minutes.
The Town Hall was no larger than my home and that included the tiny town jail. We had one policeman and that was enough.
Those memories only apply to my home town though. More general:

My impression is that school bullying in most places was much less violent than it is now.
No internet, no Google, no Facebook. So no internet culture. It was harder to find out anything you couldn’t learn locally.
I think I might have been in my late teens or early twenties before I found out what ‘homosexual’ means.
Speaking of that, I remember when ‘homophobia’ first began to be used to mean bigotry against gays rather than an actual phobia like claustrophobia or agoraphobia.
 
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Well, a lot has changed since my childhood. I remember the bread delivery truck. He was from the Manor Bakery and was called the Manor Man, sold bread and sweets door to door. The milkman just delivered milk, but it had to be shook up before using to mix the cream which rose to the top.

We played outdoors a lot, and sometimes walked for miles throughout the city. No cell phones, of course, but one of us might have a dime for a pay phone if needed. Or we rode the streetcar or bus.

I used to listen to radio programs—serials on the radio. We did get the first TV in the neighborhood, but that was the undoing of Grandma. She had to spend every Tuesday night with Milton Berle.

There were mom, dad, and five kids in the family, but only one car, but that was normal. For a long time, the telephone was a party line, so if a neighbor was on the line, you’d have to wait to make a call, or interrupt and tell them you really needed to make a call.
 
Cars had bench seats in the front, and we never used seat belts snd they were only lap belts.
The nice thing about bench seats was that we could get the whole family in one car–three in the front and three or four in the back.

Once, some years later, making a trip with some relatives, I asked at the rental car counter if they might have a large car with bench seats. I just got an uncomprehending stare.
 
Gay meant 'happy" in a light-hearted spirited way, and it rhymed with May in Mary’s hymn,
“The Lovely Month of May”
https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B-cAq5F7sueHSXk5d3pQOEtJcEk/view
Zaccheus, no internet etc, but we did have encyclopedias, and encyclopedia salesmen regularly knocking on our doors, but by the time the volumes reached our shelves there was new knowledge and research not included. No immediate access to knowledge…

Our first house, new, three bedroom was $17,000…, now around $700K. Silly us that hubby’s job caused so many moves before his illness set in, that now we don’t have a house!

It’s so hard on the young ones now to buy homes of their own, with the astronomic rise of house prices over the past decades.
In earlier times, the expectation and certainty was a house, garden and backyard for the children to play in.
 
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I’m only 18 and can’t really relate to any of you guys 😅

Around 5 years ago when I had my 1st crush, we both weren’t really active on social media. We both had facebook but never really used it for other purposes than gaming and chatting.

Because I liked her I tried my best to capture her interest (it was really childish love XD). So I talked to her and her friends to try and really get to know her.

These days, we can just look up someone’s name in a social media platform and almost everything about him/her shows up. Their birthday, hobbies, favourite place, food, color, photos of them and their family/friends, and many more

I’m not saying social media is bad, but I personally miss actually getting to know someone from the time that God allowed us to spend together. Not just by a click of a button.

I guess that’s what I miss most from my childhood :confused: Not much changes in the Church at my time
 
I’m not saying social media is bad, but I personally miss actually getting to know someone from the time that God allowed us to spend together. Not just by a click of a button.
Yes, social media actually seems to isolate people in many ways because it inhibits face to face personal interaction. What was that old song about “getting to know you…”?
 
He was from the Manor Bakery and was called the Manor Man,
We had the Helms Man to deliver baked goods, from the Helms Bakery. The building that housed the Helms Bakery here became a trendy antique store after the bakery closed.
 
The music was better! Of course, that’s entirely subjective, and most everyone still has an affinity for the music that was popular when they were growing up. I’m still not digging rap music 😖, however, and it’s been around a long time now.
 
It’s interesting. I’m 29, which means a lot of this technology stuff was just coming online during my childhood. So one of my childhood memories is noticing that now every business seemed to have a website, where before that wasn’t really a thing. My father worked on computers. At first it was unusual that we had a computer at home, then it wasn’t. Computer games were becoming a thing everyone played. My father had a pager when I was younger, then later a blackberry. I got my first cell phone - a flip phone - in college. Facebook still required a .edu email to sign up and herded you into college networks - it wasn’t just a general thing.
 
I remember “Buster Brown” shoes, and the commercials that would come out in August just in time for back to school.

I also remember Saturday morning cartoons, especially Bugs Bunny classics.
 
I remember being about five years old and my mom would give me a quarter and send me to the grocery store to buy a loaf of bread. I would cross busy streets to get there–about a third of a mile away.
 
We wore white felt type gloves with Sunday clothes, or when dressed up in the spring and summer, with a spring coat.
Girls did not go with bare legs, you either had tights or knee socks or socks.

We had rain bonnets and a plastic rain coat.

My dad had a fedora, and men wore hats all the time when I was very small. Then they all of a sudden stopped.

Then I remember flower power and the designs of that, as well as shagcarpet in neon colors. This I don’t miss.😜
 
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I remember being about five years old and my mom would give me a quarter and send me to the grocery store to buy a loaf of bread. I would cross busy streets to get there–about a third of a mile away.
Unlikely now this would happen. Parents need to be so much more protective in a world known to be less safe.
 
I used to also go buy bread at one store that I needed to cross a busy street. And sometimes carrots and celery from the green grocer.

There were a number men who worked there , one who I thought a bit scary. He was a bit gruff, and always had an unlit cigar on the side of his mouth.
 
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