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What I realized from my own college search was that the “perfect” Catholic university doesn’t exist, but that there was a place where I could learn and contribute quite a lot. There comes a point when we have to break out of our Catholic “bubble” and exist in the world, a world which will challenge us, but at the same time help us grow. God does this in many ways–shockingly not only through relationships with other uber-orthodox Catholics! My advice is not to avoid building relationships with fellow students… you’ll surely miss out on a lot of life lessons and good relationships. You’re called to be a Christian witness to others–being a friend doesn’t necessarily mean condoning others’ immoral behavior.Well Belmont Abbey so far hasn’t seem to be too bad. I can’t help what some of the other students do, but the monestery and church can be were I spend my time outside of class, make friends with the monks and priests instead of the other students.
Besides, I’m sure you’ll find other students like yourself, who will help shape you into a faithful and mature Catholic. Don’t close yourself off to those relationships!