From what I have seen thoughout my life of attending many different types of mass, from bunny Easter dance masses, to SSPX Latin masses, I have found that the most beautifully attended and said masses are the ones in the middle leaning to the Latin. The hybrid masses said reverently. EWTN is a good example of a beautiful OF mass. They incorporate the Latin for the parts that remain the same each Sunday, but then for the parts that change, they say those parts in English. The priests are always very reverent and focused, and they really draw you to pay attention. They never use Extraordinary Ministers, or altar girls, they use patons, and the music is straight out of the Adoremus hymnal. It is a beautifully said mass, and if you look at the people attending, you can tell that they are true Catholics.
Right now, I live in Vegas, there are churches here that have priests who hop down the aisle with bunny ears on Easter, there are churches with good priests and lousy musicians, lots of EM, and altar girls, and then there is one parish, the one I try to go to as often as possible. At 9:30am each Sunday, a retired priest says a hybrid mass. He is slowly (very slowly) teaching the Latin to the people. Last Sunday we just started singing the creed in Latin. It is so nice. He knows Latin inside and out, he translates all the songs without looking at anything. Every Sunday right before his sermon, he tells us something new, or reminds us about something we have learned about the Latin.
When I was young, I attended the FSSP mass in KS, so I am remembering allot of it, and my parents know the Latin, so it is a bit frustrating to us that it has taken two years before we have even been aloud to sing the creed in Latin, but we are just thankful for a sane mass to go to.
I have moved all over the US, when I lived in Birmingham, we went to EWTN for mass, when I lived in Denver, we went to Holy Ghost or the cathedral which both had sane masses. In Las Vegas, it took us a long time, but finally we found this one mass that we can go to.
This fall, I am going to Wyoming Catholic College. They have a priest who says the EF, the OF (which is a hybrid mass), and the Byzantine masses. So I will be exposed to all three for the next four years. I am excited!
It seems to me, that if we embrace the EF and the OF and make each as beautiful as they can be, and have each complement the other, it will be like what Pope John Paul II said of the Eastern and Latin rites of the mass: that they are like the two lungs of the body of the Church, each separate, but equal, and each complementing the other.