Wow.
I wonder what the OP thinks of all this.
Too bad we can’t use a different word than “traditional” Catholic, since that term seems to confuse people, as it obviously confused the OP. (She thought it referred to conservatism.)
Why not just “Latin Mass Catholic?” That’s what I call my friends who attend the Latin Mass–they themselves will say that other Catholics are “traditionalists” too, but some Catholics prefer the Latin Mass and some prefer the OF Mass.
IMO, the love of and hopefully faithfulness in attending the Latin Mass is what makes these Catholics “different” (in a good way) than the Catholics who do not prefer the Latin Mass or attend it.
Attendance at Latin Mass instead of OF Mass usually means a lot of other traits–e.g., my friends generally are more likely to wear dresses (the women and girls, that is!), and when they wear more casual clothes, they are always modest. The women cover their heads at Mass. They are committed to family life and often, but not always, have more than two children. They try to stick with a schedule of prayers each day. In our city, many of these Catholics send their children to the independent (not associated with a parish) school, in which the children are taught Latin and attend the Latin Mass during the week.
Interestingly, the friends that I have in my OF parish have a lot of these same traits, although many of the women do wear slacks to Mass and don’t cover their heads. But some do. And I know a lot of families at my OF parish that have eight or more children and are still working on their families! (And of course, the moms are thin and beautiful–how can this be?!! I’m so jealous!)
And I know lots and lots of OF Mass devotees who are faithful about their daily prayers, who go to Adoration almost every day, or at least weekly, who are regulars at the Sacrament of Reconciliation, etc.
And what I think is really fascinating is that the children of many of the Latin Mass Catholics that I know are actually quite normal! They watch regular television shows, many of which I would not allow a child to watch. They listen to secular rock music . They wear jeans (the girls, too). They read teen vampire novels.
But yet, they are very devoted to Jesus, Mary, and the Church.
So my conclusion is, it’s best not to have stereotypes of Catholics. People are surprising! Just because someone attends the Latin Mass regularly does not mean that they have a certain personality “type” or traits. Same for people who attend the OF Mass regularly. Best not to pre-judge anyone.