I’m sure you do. Hopefully they are shared by your community, fostering in you a much needed sense of belonging and hopefully the basis for your concepts is transcendent so as to avoid crises of meaning that are so privately common among the non-religious (even as that reality would never be admitted to when in defensive-mode on a religious forum - which I do really understand).
I want to address this because I think it’s important. I do think that many people sense a need for a transcendent meaning. I belong to a variety of religious, philosophical and atheist forums and people commonly bring this up. However there are people for whom this isn’t a problem. Human minds are wired in a variety of different ways, and while I think it is most common for people to seek some kind out meaning beyond the material for existing, there truly are a reasonable % of humans that don’t seek or seem to need that.
The idea of there being no atheists in fox holes or in private or whatever, stems from this idea, that all people have a god shaped hole they they seek to fill. I think that most do, hence the pervasiveness and power of religion, but some just don’t, and it’s not a put on.
I have found a similar break down of personalities among all the various religious and atheist folks I’ve been in contact with. No difference between Christians, Pagans, Atheists as far as that goes, including philosophical discussions. I don’t find this surprising but many atheists on the forums I belong to are horrified that we aren’t better than the average bear when it comes to behavior, social interaction, status in life, etc. And many Christians are horrified that atheists aren’t worse than the average bear either. Nor Pagans. We pretty much run the gamut of education levels, social consciousness, behavior etc.
I am one of those people who doesn’t feel any need for a transcendent meaning. I’m not bragging or claiming that makes me smarter, more reasonable or whatever. I did nothing to become this way, I’ve always been like this. It doesn’t make me any better or worse than anyone else or make my life easier or harder (as far as I can tell), but it is the truth about me.
I haven’t found atheists to be more open minded than Christians. Sure, when it comes to a subset of beliefs they might be since they aren’t bound to one set of dogma, but overall when it comes to beliefs and preferences in all the areas of life, they are pretty much the same.
This is something that it seems like neither side is usually willing to accept.
There is a little example that I often hear. A believer in god asks an atheist what is it like to not believe in god? And the Atheist says, pretty much like you not believing in all the other gods but yours. The only difference is that we believe in one less god than you.
I think that’s true. Christians don’t usually go around worrying about all the things they don’t believe in, neither do most Atheists. They are busy living according to what they do believe in. Sure, in both groups there are vocal “anti this or that” people, but for the most part, they are attending to the business of life.