Boldface mine: Could you please define “culturally Catholic?”
Please don’t be offended personally because I am going to try to be honest in my comments.
A few weeks ago, there was a rather “warm” discussion on CAF about Catholics and alcohol use. If you look up this discussion (I wouldn’t recommend it), you will see that I am adamantly opposed to alcohol use of any kind, except for the occasional Nyquil shot during a sinus infection, and the use of vanilla extract in baking.
Is this what you mean by “Catholic culture?” I hope not, because in all honesty, the alcohol issue was the hardest hurdle for me to leap over to become Catholic. Everything else was easy–True Presence, Papal authority, baptism of infants, Sacraments, Marian dogma, etc.–easy. It was the “culture” of alcohol use that repelled me and, I’m sorry to say, still repels me. Unless the Lord performs a miracle and changes my personality, I will never fit in with this aspect of Catholic culture.
I’m sorry about that. It separates me and that is a shame.
And I’m not the only one. During the course of that thread, I received several PMs from converts and from those considering converting who feel the same way about alcohol. Catholics are incredulous that such a “little thing” is such a big problem for us, but again, just being honest–it IS a wall between us and “Catholic culture.”
PrayforMallory, I would be careful if I were you about accusing evangelicals of anti-intellectualism. I was 47 years old before I became Catholic. In all those years, no Catholics ever talked to me about their Church, explained how the Bible and Catholicism are compatible, or defended various aspects of Catholicism (e.g., Marian devotions, etc.) I remember talking to Catholics and it was obvious that they had never read the Bible on their own. Many of them knew nothing about their own history.
I realize that I was probably talking to people who were catechized after Vatican II. But I knew plenty of older Catholics who, if asked if they knew Jesus as their Personal Savior, would just stand there and say, “We don’t believe in that.” or some other lame answer.
I believe that one of the reasons why my husband and I, and many evangelicals, have converted, is that we ARE both intelligent and devoted people who came to realize through both our minds and our spirits that the Catholic Church is the True Church.
Thankfully places like Catholic Answers exist now, and many Catholics are learning how to be ready to give an answer to those who ask, as St. Peter urges us to do in his first letter.