What is it there that you want but just Don't have?

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Increased faith. The stronger ones faith is, the more truly free and carefree they are.
 
PelagiathePenit said:
I’d like to say I really do not want much.
  1. I wish I did not worry so much.
  2. better time management
  3. followed through with my daily tasks
  4. did not care so much about others think of me
  5. voluminous breasts
  6. less selfish/self-absorbed
  7. straighter legs
  8. wider hips
  9. confidence
  10. contentment
  11. thicker skin
  12. more motivation
  13. higher sex drive
  14. clear skin
  15. MATURITY
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If you had the last you would not need or want any of the others…
 
Right now? A lovely big 40 kg sack of coal… Was too exhausted to get it last week, and no way am I about to tangle with the local shop hassle of delivery or go out again… Distinctly cool these days…
 
Rosebud77 said:
If you had the last you would not need or want any of the others…
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Maturity is a process which takes time. By the time one has acquired a sufficient amount of maturity, youthful beauty may be already on the wane or has already left altogether.
 
phil_at_dayboro said:
What is there in life , that you want,you long for , you dream about , you wish for,
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That you just Don't have ?
Family ? Knowledge ? Patients ? Inner Peace ? Spiritual understanding ? Anything at all ?
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What ?
For myself , a better understanding of self forgiveness And the power to forgive others
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A wife and kids but I guess those are someones not somethings
 
Happiness. That’s all I ask for. I am pretty sure it will never happen since I have never had happiness in my life and I am in my 40’s. So, I have another 40 to 50 years left at the most, hopefully less, and I am out of here! Thank goodness that there is no such thing as reincarnation because if there was, I would refuse to come back!
 
Sunlight said:
Happiness. That’s all I ask for. I am pretty sure it will never happen since I have never had happiness in my life and I am in my 40’s. So, I have another 40 to 50 years left at the most, hopefully less, and I am out of here! Thank goodness that there is no such thing as reincarnation because if there was, I would refuse to come back!
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Someone asked me at a craft fair, knowing the work I do, was I happy. I thought for a moment then said “I am fulfilled.” that I could never be fully happy in the fullest sense while there were babies dying for simple food or medical care.

But yes, I know moments and hours of happiness. Depends what you mean of course. I have often been told I am easily pleased, But for decades I suffered at the hands of others and when that ended valued and value the so called small things of life so greatly. We can choose happiness in what we have. We are so blessed are we not?
 
A man I feel at ease with and mutual love for, a man I feel I can trust, that would lead to a happy marriage.

The ability to buy a house of my own choosing. I’ve owned two houses and neither was really my choice. The one I live in currently was bought as a result of pressure from my mother, while I was out of state. It’s her dream house, and there’s without doubt an anger at her that, on top of all the other garbage she has pulled on me over the years, she had to force her choice of house on me, when she herself got to buy houses she loved repeatedly, when we moved for business reasons during my childhood.
 
Durable Power of Health, And Finance for MIL; given willingly and with joy.
 
Millions of dollars
Super powers (preferavly superman style plus teleportation and telekinesis)

O.o and the ability to fix crazy people. Like touch people with mental issues and they be like “Oh all good now!”
 
ToeInTheWater said:
A good relationship with my father.

A husband.

The temperament to be a good wife and mother. (Okay this is more theoretical but I really fear that even if I do eventually get married I will mess it up because of my Family of Origin issues.)
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My Dear,

No relationship is ever 100% perfect.

I tend to believe every relationship is going to have some kind of issues in it, including a friendship/friendships. If you are in some kind of a relationship long enough, there will be conflict in it at some point, so take heart. 🙂 ❤️
 
Still no coal and deluging… ah well… some things are easier than others…
 
I Found that most of the time, you get what you need but not the things you want,
People say , if you want something hard enough , it will come ,
But that’s not always the case , because it’s not an essential need to your life,
But sometimes you know that what you want in unachievable ,
Say as an example , you may have a desire to see or climb Mount Fuji in Japan ,
Then decades pass and life moves on, then behold , a surprise twist in life ,
A trip to Japan ,and a visit to Mount Fuji , so I guess we can get what seems unachievable , we just need to believe in ourselves and the Mystrey of life ,
And be patient ,
 
phil_at_dayboro said:
I Found that most of the time, you get what you need but not the things you want,
People say , if you want something hard enough , it will come ,
But that’s not always the case , because it’s not an essential need to your life,
But sometimes you know that what you want in unachievable ,
Say as an example , you may have a desire to see or climb Mount Fuji in Japan ,
Then decades pass and life moves on, then behold , a surprise twist in life ,
A trip to Japan ,and a visit to Mount Fuji , so I guess we can get what seems unachievable , we just need to believe in ourselves and the Mystrey of life ,
And be patient ,
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True and if you have any sense and compassion for yourslef then you accept that some things are beyond your reach and stop lacerating yourself and yearning

Old age teaches that, I am slowly getting used to increasing limitations and finding ways to still be of use and work for others.

Hate seeing old wans who seem to think they are not…

Less pain would be grand though!! But that too is not going to happen…

Life is precious and short and sad to waste it on seeking what may never be or what was…

PS that does not apply to coal!
 
  1. More faith
  2. To get a few parts in community plays / musicals. I haven’t had much time in the past few years due to studies, but I was usually a background actor in the past and I would love to have an actual part. Acting is my passion 🙂
 
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