**You didn’t answer, whether or not you believe in the living God; personalised - not as “idea”.
Well I picked up “my English” in 1959 in a UK-factory, so I again avoid to go into your upper class details (I otherwise would have to look up too many words

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My love-sample in first posting can be widened to many creatures other than men. Take your dog. Surely he doesn’t love you just ‘cos you feed him. I never feed my dog. My wife does. I don’t even ever give him a snack as (I hate obedience out of love for food - having been member of many dog-clubs and having had 8 dogs altogether including the one of by Birmingham host-parents). If someone else would feed your dog, he’d still return to you, because he loves you even when he never holds up the door for you
I’ll never forget in 1949 those two chicken in the 30 of my uncles, who always had been together in that chicken lot. Now when my dog caught one of these two, all the rest of the chicken fled. But this chicken who loved that other chicken, attacked our dog severely. I saved the chicken our dog had (it was ok) and the two left together - and lived happily ever after

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Oh there is love in the world even spread among some of all creatures for the simple reason, that God is love. As He created all there is, love is widely spread over all there is too. Sigmund Freud’s idea of all having to do with sex, is simply ridiculous, as many ideas of many philosophers are. See Nietzsche who ended insane, as he did not believe in the one and only God. Oh, how these philosophers will hate their scripts today!!!
The exampel of holding up a door is less love, than the desire to be loved by this person. Making good impression, is wanting to be loved.
I would simply not dare to call the one and only God who not only created all there is, but also saved the world from its own destroying through Jesus Christ His only son, as simply: “there is a principle alive in the universe greater than my own reason that has reasons of its own.” For how would one justify oneself before God one day when we stand face to face before Him, that we called GOD simply “an alive principle” ?
The excuse “oh well I thought….” won’t count then for many reasons, such as St. Paul made clear in Romans 1:20 …For since the creation of the world, God’s invisible qualities, his eternal power and divine nature, have been clearly seen, being understood from what has been made, so that men are without excuse.,………
Understand God? No! Never and nobody will ever understand God – not even the Angels do, will or ever had. So, why should we deny believe - just because we do not understand God?!
The subject “Philosophy” includes every reasonable thought about things we do or did not understand yet. Mathematic, Astronomy, Chemistry where Philosophies, as well as the idea that the world was flat – until understanding came about. God we’ll never understand; still He is NOT subject to philosophy, but believe and faith, and as we are told firstly by God Himself directly, the prophets, later by God through Jesus Christ, there is no excuse what so ever for disbelieve. (Or considering God as “an idea”).
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