Let us see what we agree on.
Mass should always be celebrated with dignity and reverence.
I concede.
it really doesn’t matter what language in which the Liturgy is celebrated.
A couple of points:
I concede that per se the language of the Liturgy is not decisive. Masses or Divine liturgies that could be called traditional are celebrated in a variety of languages which are either a vernacular or understandable to the faithful.
The Novus Ordo was promulgated in Latin, it is also a Latin Mass and is said in Latin, see EWTN and many celebrations in the Vatican.
So this statement is actually besides the point as Latin is actually something both the NO and the TLM have in common. We could examine it seperately later.
I would say that the “intention of the priest” is of paramount importance to the celebration of the liturgy.
I concede, if you really mean what you are saying that the intention of the priest is primary, essential etc. If I was being pedantic I may wish to say that the Form and the Matter are also paramount and not only the intention of the priest.
but what you said earlier is that “all” that matters is the intention of priest (and I assume we can add the matter and the form to that)
The difference is as follows:
Let us say you and I were sitting at a table eating a meal (as Trads and NO Catholics can sometimes do without coming to blows) and you sarted choking. Now, I could grab my steak knife and perform an emergency tracheotomy. But if someone at the next table could perform the Heimlich manoeuvre perhaps it would be better if they did that.
It is essential or paramount that we save your life and that is both my and our neighbours intention and both means would be equally effective in achieving that end, but surely one is better than the other.
If you disagree I can start sharpening the steak knife
What you fail to realize is that Mass is not about what you or I want or prefer.
I actually agree 100% that our preference is besides the point. Would you agree if it turns out that the TLM is in fact better? What actually matters are the objective facts.
Kindly do not judge rashly what I do or do not realise. I would like to have a polite and constructive conversation with you.